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    Dating a girl that has never had a boyfriend

    I really need some advice because I have no clue how to handle this situation and never expected myself to land in this situation.

    Basically, I met this girl online and we talked for about a month, things have moved to the point where we are what I would consider dating but she really doesn't know what to consider it since she has never been in this situation before or ever really had a boyfriend.

    I personally know how I am and how I act around people I want closer in the sense of dating however I don't know how to handle this girl in the sense of how slow I should be taking it and how careful I need to be as not to scare her or do anything wrong. I'm not willing to give up on her as that would just be dumb, I do want to be around her more and I have straight up told her that but she doesn't exactly know how to handle or feel about that.

    What do I do? How do I handle this and how slow should I take everything.

    P.S. Sorry I'm sort of half asleep so if this doesn't make much sense please be patient I will try to explain more when I get off of work.

    Edit: This is a serious topic. Not spam or joking.

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    I would prefer not to.
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    ha

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    Oh god yes.

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    Are you for real Sugar?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mytiwar View Post
    Are you for real Sugar?
    No Joke

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    Buy her a puppy as a gift. Tell her that if she ever even contemplates leaving you, you'll kill the puppy.

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    Wait, so clarify this. Is this going to be an e-lationship or a real one?

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    you're signing up for a lot of work OP, but if you love her maybe it's worth it. take things at her pace and don't push her too hard, especially regarding physical intimacy. do your best to make her feel comfortable, so you can teach her shit slowly. if it's a distance relationship though, idk, that shit is poisonous.

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    This is why you shouldn't troll the internet for 12 year olds. That and Chris Hansen will come get you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sugarfree View Post
    I met this girl online and we talked for about a month,
    wut.

    seriously, do you guys even live near each other? am I reading this right you've only been talking a month? is she ok with you coming out to meet you? sounds like a doomed relationship whether you're her first boyfriend or not.

    Also, probably a dude.

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    No one has said it, so here it is.

    Pics first for further assessment on the situation.

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    Never rub another man's rhubarb.
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    Only two good reasons why should would not have had a boyfriend up to this point:

    1. She's ugly as fuck

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    Pics, advice, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odon View Post
    Wait, so clarify this. Is this going to be an e-lationship or a real one?
    PLEASE RESPOND

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    She has too much sugar than you can handle

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    we fuckin' stole it man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pyro View Post
    Only two good reasons why should would not have had a boyfriend up to this point:

    1. She's ugly as fuck
    loool but yeah pretty much

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    You should never consider a real relationship until you meet her face to face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pyro View Post
    Only two good reasons why should would not have had a boyfriend up to this point:

    1. She's ugly as fuck

    Even ugly bitches get laid.

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    Never rub another man's rhubarb.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BadKarma View Post
    Even ugly bitches get laid.
    Getting laid != having a boyfriend

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    Tyven had this problem once. Bitch was triflin.

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