After another 30 tries and failing just my first damn +9 weapon (and a couple dozen fails on my armors, so well over 0/65 on the weapon, and another 0 for 60 on the rest of my armor that's also not +9), I just cancelled my sub. I can't take it any more.
Taking a game this good that actually requires some skill to play well, and then throwing in 100% RNG for upgrades ... is fucking stupid. I shouldn't be able to spend 30k on upgrades while some lucky little shit spends 500g for the exact same thing.
If they make enchanting less stupid, I'd like to come back. But at the moment, it's just fucking irritating and not worth the time wasted farming over and over and over and over for no gain.