The problem with that sort of thinking is that it is victim blaming. Do you blame the murder victim for being somewhere he/she shouldn't have? What about the car accident victim? Why is rape excusable because "she shouldn't have been wearing x," or "she shouldn't have been in y place?" That line of thinking is bullshit, plain and simple. Rape is fucking rape, no amount of circumstances surrounding that should be any excuse for a man who couldn't fucking control himself around a woman dressed a certain way, or alone at night. If a man can't keep himself from violating someone in the worst possible way, he is to fucking blame, not the woman - who did not, under any circumstances, "ask for it." End of fucking discussion there.