ya I looked it up once you said that. Here are some nerds for you!
http://www.meetup.com/Lancaster-Nerd-Alliance-League/
We totally need to be frens and do that playdate btw.
ya I looked it up once you said that. Here are some nerds for you!
http://www.meetup.com/Lancaster-Nerd-Alliance-League/
We totally need to be frens and do that playdate btw.
Also, this might be nice for your wifey if she is starting to get cabin fever (not sure if she is a sahm atm or not):
http://www.meetup.com/ActiveMomsNTots/
I agree, plus who wouldn't want to hang out with this face
Spoiler: show
Also looking at that nerd group made me realize how terrible of a nerd I am. The only thing I like on their list of shit they do is video games, and even then I don't play many.
it was only a matter of time
Yeah most of the crossfit people I've come across are complete tools, they probably aren't all like that, but so far nothing about crossfit has been appealing to me. And yeah I'm broke as fuck and can't even afford a gym membership right now, so that's not going to work out for me.
Douchebags, Florida lol
bish plz, was replying to And that shit isn't untrue. Obviously, some friend-compatible people will surely do most everything, especially Crossfit, which is a great thing overall. I was simply saying his suggestion and the 2birds, 1stone Sep joked about.. isn't really what Aks is seeking.
some of yall deserve a good shovel-tossin. good lord, so quick to judge people, when some of you are giant asshats yourselves.
We like to do the same activities? - let's be similiarity-friends
We like to talk about random stuff? -let's be similarity-friends
We like to yadda yadda? yadda yadda yadda-yadda
This is part of a view about relationships with "friends" that most people have. "Do something fun", "go outside", "just be yourself". The same is said when approaching the idea of getting to know a significant other. Notice a pattern here?
The most important part of socializing from your side is your self expression.
It is the most vital thing you can bring towards another person.
Socializing is a need for humans. A healthy relationship should be based on necessities from both parties. You need the other person as much as that person needs you. (in a friend-way i have to say)
While you may have friends, these relationships remain optional rather
than necessary. Often times instead of talking to people you’ll over
indulge in external activities. These activities are more convenient
than putting in the effort to build relationships, and they help
compensate for your lack of human contact.
Making new friends seems impossible because you don’t know what to say to
strangers. And the very thought of a confrontation makes your skin
turn white.
Conversations in friendships that usually aren't built on necessities:
you: “What’s up, bro?..”
friend: “Sup. How you doing?”
you: “Nothing. Just chilling.”
friend: “Cool. Cool.”"
to your post: your coworker talks stupid shit? call her out on it. You don't buy what she says? That creates an opportunity to have a functional social interaction. If you don't scrutinize her ideas, then she will keep talking stupid shit.
And i get the feeling that you seem to be afraid of scrutiny of others towards yourself. I don't mean calling you names or actively hurting someone's well being but rather say what you want to say to a given topic. And if you find a topic boring say it is boring.
I too am envious of witch coven biker meetups.
At least they're reachable at least once or twice, I suppose.
Ride bikes, meet friends, drink beer. I can't really speak for other towns, but Houston has an awesome cycling community that has something for every level of rider, every night of the week. If I didn't have finals this week I'd have been on my third 20+ mile ride already. I've been in running clubs before also but that tends to be more of a solo activity. Oddly enough the only friends I met through running are mainly cyclists now also.
I'm 34, single, female, and perfectly happy not having any friends outside of family and work.
I can't drink so I'm a tool when going out, my interests are not what normal people are into. I find going out wasteful moneywise since I live alone and have a mortgage to pay. I will go to the cinema a couple of times a year but that's usually on my tod.
I also have a slight stutter that comes out everynow and then which can be annoying.
My twin brother is the same. We'll hang out together, but separately we don't have other friends we socialise with. Maybe it's just how we were brought up.