Originally Posted by
Osede
Just one or two question, have you tried to socialize with some one that you don't know before hand in real life? For me, I have no issue with some one I had already known, but when try to know some new stranger, I tend to be a little more "shy". While one reason is my personality tend to more observe what the person behavior, likes and etc, so I could throw an appropriate joke and stuff.
For the second question, actually I believe the question BGer asked is where have you been thrown in some spotlight before in real life? Like a team sport competition or etc. For me, I will less anxiety in game, but for some real life situation, like playing solo in concert, usually I will get more nervous. I used to be become very nervous when play table tennis in new place with new people. But these days become a little better as I some times hop around different places to keep play with different people and stranger.