Warning: long and political post! get ready to get angry...
I rarely do this but the situation in Israel and what I read on Facebook is really upsetting me and I feel like its important to hear my voice too, for whoever is reading. I must admit that I'm hurt by seeing such one-sided, biased opinions on the Gaza situation. I also oppose any violence happening around the world, but I don't assume there is one clear "Bad guy".
I will start with a disclaimer: I am against the occupation and am critical of many steps my government takes. I have participated many times in Dialogue groups in Israel and Palestine and try to encourage dialogue and peace in my country. That is called freedom of speech. It is horrible that any person, child, adult dies and I am so sad for all the humans that are hurt and dead on this bloody land.
That said, It really saddens and upsets me to see posts from my friends around the world, that are so one-sided for the Palestinian people or one-sided against Israel.
As someone who is living in Israel, goes to the bomb shelter with his son every few days, and will probably be called back into the army next week, I do believe I have a right to voice my opinion.
You are all entitled to your opinion. I just ask that you be fair and two-sided. You feel that Israel is committing war crimes by killing innocent civilians and children. That is your right. So by that same standard, is Hamas, a terror organization that is dedicated to kill Jews and want to eliminate the state of Israel, who keeps shooting dozens of bombs every day aimed to killed innocent civilians all over Israel, even when there is an active cease fire, ALSO COMMITTING WAR CRIMES OR GENOCIDE?
Unfortunately, I'm not hearing any criticism towards Hamas for not accepting a ceasefire, for putting their rockets in schools, hospitals and private homes. Why are they not being held accountable for putting their civilians in harms way?
You probably don't know or don't care that Israel brings into Gaza medical and food supplies daily, takes care of hundreds of injured Palestinians in Israeli hospitals and warns again and again Palestinians in Gaza to evacuate areas before Israel retaliates. Even Egypt is not allowing medical supplies into Gaza. I don't read any acknowledgement of that. But that doesn't even surprise me anymore, because I feel the international media is used to seeing Israel as the ugly Goliath and the Palestinians as the poor David.
If you are still reading this and not slamming me, then one more thing. Imagine a terrorist organizations (and a few countries) would want to kill you and your people and destroy your country. Were you ever in that scenario?
Imagine someone bombing your capital (Washington, London, Paris, Rome, Moscow). What would your government do? What would you be shouting in the street and on Facebook?
You want Israel to stop retaliating and just let the bombs fall and kill us all? Really? Would you agree to that?
Don't you feel a bit strange with that demand? Its one thing to be against the occupation, but to demand to end the military operation while dozens of bombs landing in Israel every day - really? Don't you feel that doesn't make sense? (unless you want the state of Israel not to exist and then we don't have much to talk about).
If you do hold that opinion, then that is a very sad opinion, because that would mean you are OK with me and my family being killed and the state of Israel ceasing to exist.
I ask of you, before you go slamming Israel, please extend your criticism and feedback also to the Palestinian and Hamas leaders (most of whom are living comfortably outside the conflict area anyways).
I am off probably back to the army, to risk my life for a war I didn't choose and that could have been avoided by both sides choosing otherwise. But that is not my reality. I don't have the privilege you have of sitting safely in front of the computer or protesting safely in an affluent American or European city, because some of my neighbors (certainly not all of them) not only don't recognize my country but want to kill me.
My son goes to a bi-lingual kindergarten where he learns Arabic and the Muslim tradition. I am trying to raise a generation that might end this sad, bloody war by respecting the other and embracing them.
I invite all of my friends around the world, to help do that, not by just accusing and blaming Israel, but by helping sound other critical voices toward "freedom fighters" that believe that violence is the only way. By shouting out against many other horrible acts being done right now all over the middle east and especially in Gaza by the Hamas.
I expect to receive many negative responses by my liberal, left-wing friends. I do hope that you will take at least one minute to think about it, reflect honestly, and not just side with the weak, "innocent" side. Remember, there are always two sides to every story.
Hug your children and I hope you will never ever have to be in my position.
Pray for Peace to all,
A