I learned today that LBGT find the word "homosexual" to be an extreme insult, but that "gay" was ok.
NY piece on it:
mobile.nytimes.com/2014/03/23/fashion/gays-lesbians-the-term-homosexual.html?referrer=&_r=1
I found it rather interesting because all my life I have heard gay being an insult and homosexual being the pc term.
I know there's a lot of LBGT people on bg, so I figured I'd ask if in your experience how true (widespread among the community) it is. I am surprised I have never heard of it until today. I have used homosexual a lot because I thought it was like the proper scientific term for it. But I definitely don't want to step on toes.
Another thing I heard was that "queer" is now ok, but I don't think I could ever get into the habit of using it.