Originally Posted by
Inshiya
90 days? How could anyone consider waiting that long.
Would you wait 90 days to have a conversation with someone you were dating? Wait 90 days to have emotional feelings for them?
For me, if we haven't had sex, we're just friends. I'm not going to decide to just start going "steady" with a friend.
If she thinks that we're going to just grow with each other without the physical side, this relationship is doomed from the start. She may be able to get more attached and connected without sex, but the two are not mutually exclusive for me.