I love posts like this. I don't think I've actually posted anything on BG for years now, but FFXIV brought me back here a while ago. Ultimately... BG is just a community of very intelligent people. But the one thing that comes with the intelligence and passion that this place has for final fantasy MMO's is that it gets extremely argumentative and hostile. It's always been that way for some reason, and I guess it always will be. I used to think that maybe I was a few years older than people here, so I didn't fit in... but now I realize that it's mostly because I never really enjoyed or found a whole lot of success with the hostility that breeds here. It's part of what makes this a unique community, and I guess you take the good with the bad. In reality, other places are incredibly argumentative and shitty to each other too, so maybe it's just that BG is better at everything they do... which includes telling other people off.
Thanks for being you, BG. I still love reading this stuff, and I don't know if I'd have such thick skin when it comes to assholes on the internet if you hadn't been such a bastard sometimes!