Originally Posted by
Yuri-G
He should pay you and you should still break up. From the sound of it, you're both about ready to be done with the relationship anyway, so there should be no hard feelings (unless there's more to the story?)
If that doesn't work, you may be fucked, I can't really think of another way out of it other than to string him along until you go (assuming he doesn't dump you first). And that doesn't really sound like fun anyway, going with some guy knowing you're done with him.
You should be able to go together as friends though.
edit: or yeah, someone else pays his half and goes with you.