I wouldn't get involved with something that personal. If you were his friend I would view this very differently. But being a roomate doesn't qualify as being a "friend".
I wouldn't get involved with something that personal. If you were his friend I would view this very differently. But being a roomate doesn't qualify as being a "friend".
Gurllllll Aksanyi, you need to come up in here and give us the 411 gurl.
Give her 5 minutes with This fierce bitch and she will smack some sense into her, im sure.
This bitch just does not sound like the typa chick who will throw down for her kid. Sounds like the type who thinks OMG A BABY! I ALWAYS LOVED BABIES! BEING A MOM WILL BE SO COOL! Then 5 minutes later on her cell, LIKE OMG, UR HAVING A MIXER TONIGHT? LIKE, I'M TOTALLY THERE!
I thank you all for your advice and participation in the thread. She will be at my house tonight so I hope to have some words with them. It is really hard to speculate what is going through their minds because he is the type of guy that just has such a genuinely good soul that he feels its his responsibility to raise it and throw away the rest of his life. She seems so obsessed with him that she thinks they are in this crazy true love that people only see in movies and read in books. I dont really see anyway of convincing them this is a bad idea but tonight I am going to go for it.
The one thing I have going for me is that he is a fucking sucker for peer pressure and loves to go out and party with his boys, so i am hoping that i can bring up the fact that down the line when she is laid up with a baby and we are begging him to come out, and he does, it will create some awesome drama. I MUST PLAY UP THE DRAMA. Also thank you for the cracked article. i fucking love cracked.
Just tell them the babby will turn out like you. They'll slay it mad quick.
A BABBY LIKE ME IS A GIFT FROM THE HEAVENS.
so basically it could be one of a few things
1. she's trying to trap him
2. he's trying to trap her
3. she's crazy and wants to be closer to him
4. he's crazy and wants to be closer to her
5. they're sane and honest people
idk man it's all over the board, I can't call it yet
Be like her family, and pray the baby comes out white.
You know anybody else with a baby? Make your friends spend 24hrs with them. Once they learn having a kid is a real job and not something that ends (like babysitting), they might think twice. The constant crying made me so glad I was an uncle that could give the kid back when I was bored. I don't think I could handle it full-time.
the old keep-a-nigga baby.