So I don't know what to do here, and here I am in my 30s asking BG for life advice. XD
I slept with this guy I know a few months ago. He's way younger than I am, we were drunk and it was a one-night, go-nowhere kind of thing. It hasn't happened again, we never talked about it as a pre-agreement to never talk about it or bring it up, and we've been fine. There's been no hint from either of us that we plan to do it again, and we're still friends.
That's all well and good. To my knowledge, no one knows but us that we slept together, and as far as I'm concerned, it will stay that way.
Now it gets tricky, as I've met his brother, and well, I have a thing for him. You might say a crush (for lack of a better term), but I kind of have noticed he might be digging me, as well. Without going too much into detail, I get the feeling he'd be interested, and unlike with his brother, I could see myself possibly like, being with this guy. He's a bit older, a LOT more mature, and yeah. Where there was zero potential for anything with the first guy from the get-go, I see there being somewhat of a chance with the second.
Here's of course the dilemma: they're brothers. I'm not the type of bitch to come between brothers or best friends. I'd like to see if I could have something with the older brother, but not at the expense of both a friendship - with both guys - and a family relationship on their part. Is it okay to pursue this? And following that, is it ever okay to be like, "Hey, I slept with your younger brother, long time ago, it meant nothing, it was before I even knew you, etc.?" If I date the older brother, is the younger brother gonna come out of the woodwork and fuck me over and make me out to look like a whore? I don't think he would, because we are friends and we did agree that it was a one-time deal, but I don't know.
Yeah, I know, sounds extremely slutty of me, I am well aware. I've never been in this type of situation before. And I don't know if it's actually okay to pursue the older brother since I've already been with the younger one, even though it will never go back there. Ever. EVER. Drunken mistake, really.
So yeah. Is it okay? Or should I walk away from this before I fuck up a couple good friendships and a family thing? Should I talk to the younger brother? If I pursue the older brother, is the fact that I slept with his brother something I should be up front about? Would that be a dealbreaker? Or should it stay a secret forever, between myself and the younger brother?
Any advise would be great. inb4 slut, whore, ho, skank, etc. Yeah, I love the cock, that isn't news people. Thanks guyz.