Originally Posted by
elison
We sat my brother down and asked if he had some kind of tutoring this year and he said he had to go to Silvan Learning Center. He's ADHD and takes adderall, and has some minor learning problems in school due to this. It's plausible but I just call bullshit. She waits until we get him to tell us this? When I confronted her about it she said that it's my fathers responsibility to give her his plans for my brother as far as giving/taking for set periods of time each parent has him. Makes no sense considering it's written in black and white in a big ass packet for her to read at her own will.
Clearly states that without written notice, my father has him from July 1 - 31. If anything, she should have arranged everything she had planned around this specific date but she didn't. She doesn't abide by the book whatsoever. Like I said earlier, if she doesn't have it her way she gives us hell and it's getting beyond ridiculous. It just reaffirms the fact that she doesn't take the decree into consideration at all.
I also asked her if I could take him since my dad works and she refused. She claims that it's her responsibility to do that for my brother and blah blah blah.
She definitely knows that without my father, her financial situation would be turned to shit. According to my dad, she has always been wasteful with their money which was a huge point in the divorce. But she also knows my father loves his kids more than life itself and wouldn't allow his youngest son to go without. She takes huge advantage of this obviously.
My father is old school as fuck. I just wish I could convince him to stop paying for her shit and see how she is after a month or two. I guarantee I wouldn't be posting this on BG and asking for advice if that was the case but hey, can't teach an old dog new tricks.