Pulling this out of my ass just by looking at xivdb (which makes me wonder why you can't do it yourself)
Throwing out parry, and ignoring skill speed and accuracy when det/crit are around...
Main: Allagan (alt options are Bravura Zenith(SkSp+26) or Dual Haken(Acc+37))
Head: myth(Det+15)
Body: Allagan(Acc+34) or myth(Acc+24) -- they both just have parry and accuracy, just in different amounts
Hands: Allagan(Det+11)
Belt: Hero's Belt of Fending(Det+8)
Legs: myth(Crit+34) or Allagan(Det+24) -- your choice, they should be about equal
Feet: Allagan(Det+11)
Ears: Tremor Earrings of Striking(Crit+11 Det+11)
Neck: Hero's Necklace of Slaying(Crit+16) or Direwolf Choker of Striking(Crit+16)
Wrist: Allagan Bracelets of Maiming(Crit+11 Det+11)
Rings: 2 of Hero's Ring of Slaying(Det+11), Allagan Ring of Maiming(Det+11), Vortex Ring of Striking(Crit+16), or Direwolf Ring of Striking(Crit+16)