This is me in a nutshell. I don't get along with those either and they seem everywhere. I never got along with girls growing up or as an adult typically. The select few I do don't enjoy those things and typically are more into the gamer side of things which is where I find my best discussions from. I know the people I work with are pretty much the same or have kids and frankly..I can't relate to that as I have none nor any desire to. Speaking of which that is what complicates things more as I get older. Discussions seem to center on their family which is all fine and good but it's definitely a one sided conversation at that point. My best friend is actually pregnant currently and honestly I know that I'll rarely get to see her from now on and the things we used to do won't be possible but I care about her so I'm happy for her , but it's a harsh reality that I get along better long term with those without kids. Luckily I have some online/long distance female friends who feel the way I do and are cool as hell but again..that distance thing.
I always had male friends growing up. I was always considered "one of the guys" , a tomboy forever it seems. But every now and again O admittedly get jealous of seeing my other friends online have girls night or even just going out for drinks or catching a local show , etc. Part of it for me is I feel guilt about not having more of my own friends and feel like my husband needs more space from me. Not that he has ever made me feel that way but it comes from previous relationships where boyfriends basically asked me every week "Why don't you make friends of your own" - so in my mind I still feel like I need to live up to some ideal that isn't necessarily valid.
I'm complicated as fuck , this I know which makes it that much harder to get to know people.