Your expectations should be thus: if you're a girl, you are filtering through a bunch of messages from people you aren't interested in hoping to find a normal, functioning human being. If you're a guy, you're hoping to bait someone you find attractive into actually responding.. and then hoping that they're not cray. Once you accept that and go in with a proper mindset, its really not so bad.
I shouldn't have to disclaimer this but since I posted some real shit earlier, the following is not mine. This thread is now about this: