Just wanted to add about your husband and his job. I get it he wants to do the animation thing. But if he's not getting anywhere with it and food needs to be put on the table (or a roof over the family's head) then a change needs to be made. I'm starting a new job on Monday selling home security systems for DirecTV. Did I envision this is what I'd be doing at 34? Hell no! But circumstances happened and this is the best current opportunity while I finish my degree. Sometimes you need to take a few steps backwards to move forward in the future.