So, as a sequel to the "is a non-religious person dating a religious person possible" thread, I have a new question for you ladies/gents:
We've all dated a crazy girl/guy at some points in our lives, and while the logical answer to any of those situations is: get the fuck out, run far, and don't look back.... They have their allure (typically the best in bed, and have a lot of great passion).
That being said, has anyone dated the crazy girl and had it evolve into a working long term relationship? i.e.: gone to counseling, worked out the communication problems, and overcome the sporadic emotional meltdowns?
Some backstory:
The good:
Dating this girl for some time now, off and on. She's very cute, bi, educated, asian, and probably the best I've ever had in bed. Wakes me up with a BJ, fucks like a pornstar, brings girls home to join in, and cleans up well for work functions/friend outings.
The bad:
She is a fucking train wreck emotionally. She has insane jealousy problems and is generally an emotional rollercoaster. She seems fundamentally incapable of being happy, as any given time things are going well, she starts to lose her mind because she starts thinking about the future and instability (so it's basically a self-fulfilling prophecy in that she's worried we won't be together.. so she starts fights so that we're not together).
The communication is terrible and we get into crazy screaming fights (totally not my style) and logical analysis just DOES NOT WORK on her. We then make up 2-3 days later in some of the most intimate sex ever.
It's insane though and incredibly mentally and emotionally draining. I convince myself I don't want to live like that.. then I fall back into the trap because the sex is so good and when we're getting along it's quite nice.
Has anyone been in this situation? Is this fixable? Counseling? Books? Changes I can make in communication style?