I have to ask: did the "cute Asian doctor" not work out? ...since you ended up still laying with the psycho a year later..
I have to ask: did the "cute Asian doctor" not work out? ...since you ended up still laying with the psycho a year later..
Just get out, it isn't remotely worth it in the long run. Like people have said, it will get to the point where she does something crazy or you get lumbered with her for good. It might also be tolerable now but it's going to fuck with your mindset and happiness over time.
I mean really it depends on how crazy we're talking to say whether you can get past it but if she can't even acknowledge logical reasoning in the early stages of the relationship, I can't see it getting better in the future. It's very likely to only get worse.
'Crazy screaming fights' pretty much sums up it's a lost cause. If an adult resorts to screaming to discuss a problem and this isn't a rarity, you're boned.
Expect holes in your drywall, smashed cellphones and broken furnishings within 3-6months.
Current crazy girl pretty much nixed that by sending her crazy messages and scaring her away. Was for the best though, as the doctor was just as crazy, just religiously motivated (serious sexuality problems - intense nympho but ashamed of it due to religious upbringing).
THIS ENTIRE THREAD! 100% polling, Church not shit-posting, Asian threesomes...
If you're having fun now, have fun. Want a wife? Don't do it. Breaking it off is gonna be supa scary.
^Take it from a woman who is exactly who you're dating but 10 years more used up
maybe you should try turning the tables on her. you know, turnabouts fair play and all. perhaps invite some of your male friends to join you guys, freak out and ask her if she was into him more than you... if you're lucky maybe one of them will turn out to be the real man of her dreams and she'll dump you instead, sparing you the dangers of her wrath! :D
Afterall, you can't outcrazy crazy.
She's going to fucking stab you any way you look at it.
well the idea isn't so much she's freaked out so much as you're throwing bait to a lion to distract it and get away safely. the freaking out part is just to make yourself look less appealingly nice (and plump.)
Dude seriously stop being an idiot and get the fuck out. You will NOT CHANGE HER. Having a metric fuckton of emotional baggage and countless issues myself , there's no amount of help that will change the outcome. She has given you several signs , all of which you are trying to ignore which will not end well.
While not at this level, I've followed some of those traps if you will and thankfully the guys I were with were intelligent enough to know that there's a fucking line even with amazing sex.
Stop trying to wait it out , it won't happen. GTFO before she goes all "The crush" on your ass and you end up supporting a kid you don't need.
The fact you have to question this at all leads me to believe you may be book smart but are fucking clueless as fuck in the common sense and reality department.
Forgot to add as great as the sex stuff is , there's ALWAYS someone better. I can vouch for that personally and I'll take a hit in that department to not have to sleep with one eye open or wonder when she will snap.
Man it's so bad people are coming out like "I'm crazy too and take it from me, get out."
Or you can do what the last girl I dated did and break up with her over Skype.