View Poll Results: Is crazy surmountable?

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  • Yes, with time and work, you can make a lasting relationship

    20 9.90%
  • No Bro... Run away. They only get crazier.

    182 90.10%
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    I have to ask: did the "cute Asian doctor" not work out? ...since you ended up still laying with the psycho a year later..

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    Just get out, it isn't remotely worth it in the long run. Like people have said, it will get to the point where she does something crazy or you get lumbered with her for good. It might also be tolerable now but it's going to fuck with your mindset and happiness over time.

    I mean really it depends on how crazy we're talking to say whether you can get past it but if she can't even acknowledge logical reasoning in the early stages of the relationship, I can't see it getting better in the future. It's very likely to only get worse.

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    'Crazy screaming fights' pretty much sums up it's a lost cause. If an adult resorts to screaming to discuss a problem and this isn't a rarity, you're boned.

    Expect holes in your drywall, smashed cellphones and broken furnishings within 3-6months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arkanna View Post
    I have to ask: did the "cute Asian doctor" not work out? ...since you ended up still laying with the psycho a year later..
    Current crazy girl pretty much nixed that by sending her crazy messages and scaring her away. Was for the best though, as the doctor was just as crazy, just religiously motivated (serious sexuality problems - intense nympho but ashamed of it due to religious upbringing).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Inshiya View Post
    Current crazy girl pretty much nixed that by sending her crazy messages and scaring her away. Was for the best though, as the doctor was just as crazy, just religiously motivated (serious sexuality problems - intense nympho but ashamed of it due to religious upbringing).
    Hmm.. yeah, definitely run.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Inshiya View Post
    Current crazy girl pretty much nixed that by sending her crazy messages and scaring her away.
    If this wasn't a sign for you that this wasn't gonna work out, I don't know what would be.

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    THIS ENTIRE THREAD! 100% polling, Church not shit-posting, Asian threesomes...

    If you're having fun now, have fun. Want a wife? Don't do it. Breaking it off is gonna be supa scary.

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    ^Take it from a woman who is exactly who you're dating but 10 years more used up

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    Quote Originally Posted by Airenn View Post
    THIS ENTIRE THREAD! 100% polling, Church not shit-posting, Asian threesomes...

    If you're having fun now, have fun. Want a wife? Don't do it. Breaking it off is gonna be supa scary.
    Breaking it off now will be super scary. Breaking it off after having more fun with her for X amount of months is likely going to be a lot worse. Better get some a stab proof vest and be in a public place!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    Breaking it off now will be super scary. Breaking it off after having more fun with her for X amount of months is likely going to be a lot worse. Better get some a stab proof vest and be in a public place!
    Or do it by text message, cite fear of being stabbed.

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    maybe you should try turning the tables on her. you know, turnabouts fair play and all. perhaps invite some of your male friends to join you guys, freak out and ask her if she was into him more than you... if you're lucky maybe one of them will turn out to be the real man of her dreams and she'll dump you instead, sparing you the dangers of her wrath! :D

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    Quote Originally Posted by thetruepandagod View Post
    You gonna let your dick make all your decisions fuccboi? Drop her and run before you knock her up or get stabbed/jailed.
    This.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Psion View Post
    maybe you should try turning the tables on her. you know, turnabouts fair play and all. perhaps invite some of your male friends to join you guys, freak out and ask her if she was into him more than you... if you're lucky maybe one of them will turn out to be the real man of her dreams and she'll dump you instead, sparing you the dangers of her wrath! :D
    She wouldn't be freaked out by that.

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    Afterall, you can't outcrazy crazy.

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    She's going to fucking stab you any way you look at it.

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    well the idea isn't so much she's freaked out so much as you're throwing bait to a lion to distract it and get away safely. the freaking out part is just to make yourself look less appealingly nice (and plump.)

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    Dating a Cray Cray, how to deal?

    Dude seriously stop being an idiot and get the fuck out. You will NOT CHANGE HER. Having a metric fuckton of emotional baggage and countless issues myself , there's no amount of help that will change the outcome. She has given you several signs , all of which you are trying to ignore which will not end well.

    While not at this level, I've followed some of those traps if you will and thankfully the guys I were with were intelligent enough to know that there's a fucking line even with amazing sex.

    Stop trying to wait it out , it won't happen. GTFO before she goes all "The crush" on your ass and you end up supporting a kid you don't need.

    The fact you have to question this at all leads me to believe you may be book smart but are fucking clueless as fuck in the common sense and reality department.

    Forgot to add as great as the sex stuff is , there's ALWAYS someone better. I can vouch for that personally and I'll take a hit in that department to not have to sleep with one eye open or wonder when she will snap.

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    Man it's so bad people are coming out like "I'm crazy too and take it from me, get out."

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    Or you can do what the last girl I dated did and break up with her over Skype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Inshiya View Post
    Current crazy girl pretty much nixed that by sending her crazy messages and scaring her away. Was for the best though, as the doctor was just as crazy, just religiously motivated (serious sexuality problems - intense nympho but ashamed of it due to religious upbringing).
    The clear solution is to find a new slightly less crazy to scare off current crazy. Rinse and repeat till you get something manageable while deferring the danger to future crazies

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