Originally Posted by
Marootsoobutsu
Because for a lot of people out there, your sexuality isn't even in the top-ten most important things to the nation? I'm sure Milo would love it if the Republican Party were more gay-friendly, but if he's on board with the Republican's on tax policy, on the military, on smaller/more local government, on the judiciary/textualism, foreign policy, education, immigration, abortion, etc... then why *wouldn't* he vote Republican? Same for any gay person who is on those lines.
And when it comes to the question of marriage... I really wish I could put it into words. I have been trying for literally decades now to really explain what marriage is. It's not *just* about procreation/family creation, and it's not *just* about a life-long commitment to a loved sexual partner. There's something... different. Yes, for me it is very much a religious matter. I don't tend to talk about the subject much, because while I am deeply convicted, I recognize that I don't have the right answer to that primary question of "What is marriage?" and so remain silent. I am willing to be persuaded but the arguments I have heard ring false (though so, too, do many I hear from the right). I would imagine that, for many of the Log Cabin Republicans, the same feeling might be there: gay marriage isn't something some of them care about, not only because it's of lesser importance to them than all of the remainder of the Republican agenda, but because even some of *them* believe that gay marriage is wrong. My uncle falls in that category (though he's mostly left of Bernie and not at all a Republican)-- he's not at all religious, and he has the same difficulty explaining why he's not in favor of gay marriage, in spite the fact that he's gay.
I'm not saying that it's ethically wrong or dishonest for a gay person to have gay marriage as their single-greatest priority, but it is wrong to assume that every gay person must share your priorities on those lines, or to even share your perspective on its validity.