white borders pls
i really liked the soulless formula babies title choice.
Shit I was too late to get last thread lol.Originally Posted by Andalusiangirls
Ok let's say you are off again in a relationship but partner is very against it to the point they are acting in ways that will eventually make you file a restraining order against them... not too hard to imagine given some of that is reported. You hear a knock on your door. Open it and there they are acting like Inshiya's ex (or him depending on which side you believe) and try to push their way in. You push them away close the door and decide to be a little more candid about how and why it's definitely over. Example 2 any number of times already having a less than amicable talk. It gets worse they yell mean things at you you yell mean things back eventually they shove you you shove them back. Come home to find them cheating... literally throw them and their stuff out and obviously have some choice words. etc etc
Or here how about a real life example. 1 person frequently is quite verbally and physically abusive to their partner/person 2 to the point roommate just tells guest this is normal stay out of it. One time they are less careful and are getting physical when their child is nearby and in risk of getting hit. Needless to say person 2 is quite protective of their child and shoves them out of the way of the child, restrains person 1 and has some rather choice words about endangering their children and tells them to calm the fuck down. Bonus points Roommates gf comes down and calls the cops on person 2 claiming they beat person 1 with a giant D cell Maglite repeatedly in her completely unmarked/unbruised face
And yes I know choose less shitty partners.
yeah defending yourself or your child in self-defense from a physically and verbally abusive partner isn't abuse i agree. defending yourself against an aggressor is always justified. thought that went without saying. and, it doesn't remotely qualify as berating.
the first example is two partners assaulting each other i guess. i know emotions run high in the ol love affairs but some people act like they're entitled to a level of aggression against a partner that they wouldn't dream of against a stranger. do you know what happens if you scream in a stranger's face and shove them in public with a police officer watching?
I was formula baby too, at least for a while, never actually asked all the deets on that. Mom had an aneurysm when I was born (punchline goes here) and didnt get to come home for quite a while from hospital. A few years ago I got to read the doctors notes/timeline about how it started w a headache and got worse really fast, and they had to do brain surgery, kind of wild shit to read from 1981.
This is so amazing lol.
45 minutes of louder with crowder you know there are better ways to torture yourself that don't involve wasting 44 minutes.
So there is a lot of the happening. Staffers getting arrested, FBI lawyers testifying. Why not talk about that.
It should go without saying but that's why I put in maybe there are circumstances since we were talking about that little blurb that didn't really go into detail but did make it sound like a kind of shitty relationship as a whole. Whether it that is berating... isn't though? Like what else would call some angry scolding? Though regardless though it's also a matter of perspective... I'm sure every child has a different view of admonishments they got than their parents did. Which is why I raise the what were the situations or what's his side.
True... vast majority of abusive relationships are reciprocal though not necessarily by the same proportions or manner. Well along with the emotions most people wouldn't scream in their partners face in public either. Even without cops watching somebody gunna call lol. And nowadays someone gunna take a video and post it online forever. Hell if you loud enough your neighbors might call... even if the person is home alone and only getting angry and violent at inanimate objects. Pro tip just because your window is broken and being replaced later that day and your microwave breaks on you doesn't mean it's a good opportunity to throw it out said window.
Didn't watch it either but I can guess he uses the definition about it being normalized, pervasive and kind of accepted/condones though he often asks people their definition and tries to use that or something they can agree upon on and if it comes up probably points out the holes in that statistic...
Did check out the first minute or so and got some girl yelling at him empirical data is bullshit and talks of anecdotes. Though it's probably the highlights?