Moments of Zen (not enough doggos)

[Andalusian girls]

when my dad died the French-Canadian threatened to kill herself if i left her, she was not a goodun

[Day]

people let you know who they are when you need them, sounds like you got a goodun

a big part of what got me to go ahead and get the engagement ring was how my wife handled everything during my mothers illness and passing, rock solid partner there with me every step of the way

definitely understand those feelings melena glad you have someone there for support. losing a parent (if youre close) has to be one of the hardest things in life.

[Day]

when my dad died the French-Canadian threatened to kill herself if i left her, she was not a goodun

yikes bro

[Melena]

people let you know who they are when you need them, sounds like you got a goodun

Tell me about it. The fact that she flat out told me I need to do my own thing, grieve how I need to with no shame as I drink a beer and just watch movies/play games has been super beneficial, as well as just distracting myself with mundane crap.

when my dad died the French-Canadian threatened to kill herself if i left her, she was not a goodun

My brother is turning into this. He admitted to me on the phone (god I wish I had it recorded) that he purposely raised a stink at dad's bank to have his account shut off because the step mother was sick of his shit and showing up at her house on day one essentially strung out on meth, so she stopped talking to him. Only reason, even though getting his account frozen has no effect on her. When I called him out on him acting out in spite, he turned around and tried to say it wasn't spite, and if I don't stop calling him a fucking moron every time he does something to deserve being called a fucking moron at this point, he's going to complicate things for me, which he then in text admitted was a ha ha i'm joking threat.

[BaneTheBrawler]

he then claimed in text was a ha ha i'm joking threat.

ftfy. it is absolutely not a joke- he'll fucking do it. he's just playing CYA.

people like the person you've described claim threats like that are jokes right up until they actually execute on them. age-old schoolyard bully shit. "i was just joking, why are you taking this out of proportion" until they think they can get away with it.

[Dimmauk]

people let you know who they are when you need them, sounds like you got a goodun

Yeah, honestly I'm still kinda of hurt about how all of my family and friends helped me deal with my dad's passing.
I'm always the one who helps and consoled and cheers up people when they need it and nobody knew how to help me. I figured it would be easy for them, just do what I do for them, but it just didn't happen. I had to realize that I'm not surrounded by people like me and it's kinda not fair to expect them to treat me like I treat them when they are hurting. But damn it was a big letdown

[Melena]

ftfy. it is absolutely not a joke- he'll fucking do it. he's just playing CYA.

people like the person you've described claim threats like that are jokes right up until they actually execute on them. age-old schoolyard bully shit. "i was just joking, why are you taking this out of proportion" until they think they can get away with it.

I'm honestly not worried. He had to beg his mother who has cut him off for money to hire a divorce lawyer. The house he's living in with my Dad's brother, I'm not even sure he knows there's offers pending and will be sold in a week or two, so now he's going to have to scramble to not only find an apartment, find one that's large dog friendly towards pit bulls (though his dog is an absolute sweetie, and the worst she can do is possibly knee cap you with her tail cause you are her new best friend and she must show it every which way).

Honestly if he plays games, all it's going to do is potentially bankrupt him, cost him his stake in the house, alienate his last blood relative he has (supposedly my mother essentially told him to fuck off a week ago and hasn't spoken to him since, but he's been so paranoid and high the last week, he probably doesn't even know what he's saying at this point). While money is tight for me, I absolutely refuse to allow my dad's last gift to us get fucked over because he would rather cut off his nose to spite the face at this point, even if it means going back to two full time jobs temporarily to ensure everything gets funded.

[Cail]

Not the same situation at all, but since I've been out of work on worker's comp (may 5th was my last light duty day) and then my knee surgery (june 9th). the amount of people that would talk to me dropped significantly. I can count on 1 hand the # of people that have messaged/text/snapchat'd me since July 1 including straight up being left on Read multiple times. Shit sucks when people expose themselves for who they are

[Salodin]

I had to realize that I'm not surrounded by people like me and it's kinda not fair to expect them to treat me like I treat them when they are hurting. But damn it was a big letdown

This is such a hard life lesson to learn =(

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[Dimmauk]

This is such a hard life lesson to learn =(

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I sometimes feel a little resentment towards my loved ones including my wife because of this. She told me she had no idea what to do and suggested I see a shrink.

It's rough when your longest best friend and wife can't help, but I've been doing it from day 1 for everyone. And when I needed someone, I got nothing.

[Salodin]

I think I settled on just getting high and learning to accept my flawed loved ones

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[Andalusian girls]

i have hotter blood in my veins than you Salo i've never forgiven the disloyal bitch ass niggas that weren't there or made the situation worse

conversely it gave me a far greater appreciation of and love for them that were

[Day]

I sometimes feel a little resentment towards my loved ones including my wife because of this. She told me she had no idea what to do and suggested I see a shrink.

It's rough when your longest best friend and wife can't help, but I've been doing it from day 1 for everyone. And when I needed someone, I got nothing.

for all the piss and vinegar on this website we seem very similar and i think we'd be best buddies if we lived close irl.

[Dimmauk]

for all the piss and vinegar on this website we seem very similar and i think we'd be best buddies if we lived close irl.

I agree.

[Anoat]

Y’all gotta stop with all these gay confessions I can’t keep up

[Xno Kappa]

Y’all gotta stop with all these gay confessions I can’t keep up

Lmao

[Andalusian girls]

Y’all gotta stop with all these gay confessions I can’t keep up

[NynJa]

Y’all gotta stop with all these gay confessions I can’t keep up

You jerking it so much to these gay confessions that you cant keep it up.

Sounds like a gay confession.

[Demosthenes]

Post more zen.

[Qalbert]

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