Girl Troubles...

[Almaa]

I came too late, no more smart ass comments to be made

[Nermal]

Can I have my three minutes of my life back?

Seriously learn to have a REAL relationship, then we don't have to hear about this stupid crap.

[Demetrio$]

editedlolz

[Septimus]

Instead of worrying about her calling the cops because you wrote about her on the internet, try this. Take down that web page, block her on AIM, and move on with your life.

She cheated on you- not the first time that is ever happened in human history, probably will not be the last time either. Light some candles, put on some black clothes, listen to the Cure, write some depressive poetry, and then get over it. Learn a lesson (that you should not give your heart away so easily) and become a better person for it.

[Scunsion]

Dr. Septimus Dr. Septimus

[Heian]

Dont think that guy is a galka.

/sigh just move on man, shit happens and you got to deal with it. Its called Life and you got learn how play the game.

[Akiro]

You cannot pass go, you cannot collect 200 dollars

[blud]

http://www.yagt.org

[Nirokun!]

So I break up with her again and she admits to everything and I told her I cheated on her and had sex with another girl and then she admits to having sex with the guy she was dating behind my back...

You're a slut too, slut.

She cheats on you, and you know about it, and you're like "ok I'll let that one slide" like 50 bajillion times, and you cheat on her by having sex with another random girl. What makes you think you're any less of a slut?

She gets around with a lot of guys;

You're with this girl, and you cheat on her.

Slut.

[Elcura]

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This is a wall-o-text.

This is very Serious!
I don't want any flaming and facts would nice!

So I met this girl that lived in New
Jersey while she was visiting my
area during September... We started
talking alot she went back home
to New Jersey... Me and her decided
to be girlfriend/boyfriend. For a while
everything was going great... I met
her some of her friends on AIM and
stuff... I started to hear some rumors
about her cheating on me and I said
it can't be true because I trusted her
alot... I kept mentioning it and soon
she admited to it. We worked things
out and I talked to the guy... They
only kissed because it never got that
far because she admited it after they
where going out for a week... So everything
was fine and dandy... We where getting
along just fine until I heard from 1 and
only 1 of her friends that she was dating
a guy named Frank... Now they where
having a fight at the time so I asked her
and she said "Thats bull **** I would
never do that to you I already learned
my lesson. Shes just trying to get back
to me for me spredding a rumor about her"
So I let that go because I belived her
and I have had friends I had a fight with
spread rumors about me before.
So about 2 months passed...
Everything was going great... No rumors...
Nothing at all... We started to plan for
me to come see her and stuff and I
asked my dad and her and my dad
talked and it was ok with them as l
ong as I earned ALL of the money...
Since I had a job at the time... Well
shortly after that discussion I quit
because I was getting treated like shit
by all of the other employees there
plus I was only making $5-$6 an
hour so it wasn't really enough to put
up with it. I told her I quit and then
about 2-3 weeks later I hear from
this guy asking if me and Amanda
where still dating... I said yes and I
asked why... Well he responded
saying that she gave his friend a
note asking him to go out with her...
I didn't belive it at first but then he
says he scanned it just incase I said
yes me and her where still going out...
So I directly connect with him and
sure enough its her handwriting...
(I know this because I had gotten a
letter the day before this saying
how much she loved me and stuff.)
So I ask her about it then I put
him on 3-way and she admits to
it and says shes sorry... I let that
go because she admited to it right away...
(I know by now I should have given
up on her but I loved her so
much so I gave her 1 last chance)
So he talks to me a little here and
there for the next month and I get
his myspace link and whatnot. Then
suddenly after the month changed
after a week we stopped talking
because he was never online
(Turns out he blocked me) he kept
his myspace updated frequently... I
start seeing him writing stuff about
him and her going out and I start to
question her about it... She says hes
mad because she turned him down
and stuff... A few days later she admits
to going out with him because she felt
sorry because he just broke up with
his girlfriend so I ask him and thats all
good and true. I keep hearing stuff and
I decide I'm fed up with all of this
because now I have at least 5 people
telling me its true... So I break up
with her... She crys alot and we end
up being good friends... We helped
eachother out with eachothers
problems and we kept talking and
she said she broke up with Jason so
she asks me out again... I said no...
Not until you prove yourself... She
says shes willing to get a recording...
I suggested 3-way again but she said
no let me do it my way... So I wait
for the recording... It was like a week
or so later and no recording so I start
to ask her about it every time me and
her talk and still no recording... So
finally after a few weeks she decides
3-way is a much better idea (I had
threatened to never talk to her again)
So she does and she says to him she
never wants anything to do with him
again. So I we start to get closer and
closer again. Then we start going out
and stuff and then he keeps writing
stuff on his my space then one day
when I ask her about it she says oh...
Hes just jaelous... So I'm like ok
because me and him started talking
a little on and off over her screen
name because I had her password...
The next day... His myspace blog
posts are gone all deleted and
same with his comments...
A few weeks pass and then another
post pops up and I read it and it
says they are really dating and
that he asked her to make out
with his friend Matt... She didn't
know him and she said she said no its
not true... I have about 5 other
people saying that he is full of ****!
So yeah I belive that... Another post
pops up saying bassicly the same
thing. So I break up with her again
and she admits to everything and I
told her I cheated on her and had
sex with another girl and then she
admits to having sex with the guy she
was dating behind my back... So I still
talk to her but a little less and I start
posting on my MySpace and Xanga
telling everything she did to me...
Then I started a new Xanga that she
couldn't find and I started calling her
a slut on it and stuff... She finds it and
gets pissed off at me... Then just recently
she said her dad found my Xanga and
is pissed off at me and threatened to
call the cops... I'm scared out of my
wits because I was turning 18 1 day after...

(Very Important Even If You Don't Read All Of It)
So I back off on the name calling and
stuff... Then I start to do it again after
I had read the Xanga Terms of Abuse(Article 1).
(/end Important Part)

I quoted it on my site and then said he
can't call the police on me. The next
day she says hes pissed and he called
the cops...(I think its a lie because so
far no cops have come to my house or
contacted me) so I get scared and I delete
all of my posts on both of my chatterbox,
xanga, and cleared the Chatterbox Post history so
there is not proof.

Article 1:

FREE SPEECH ON XANGA

We at Xanga are enormous believers in free speech.

That means that we put up with a
certain amount of content and
language that we don't necessarily like
or agree with. In our minds, this is
part of the cost of Free Speech.

The only time we question that belief is
when Free Speech comes into conflict
with users' physical safety. Safety always
wins out over Free Speech.

(It never elevated to where it would harm her physical safety)

(The Question Below In Case
You Don't Feel Like Reading that whole thing)
She says theres a new law in New Jersey a
bout online harrasment saying I could get
arrested for it... So what I'm wondering is
if I really can get arrested for it even
though Xanga clearly states that freedom
of speech will only be questioned if the
person is put in harms way?

Thank you for taking your time
and reading this. Please remember
no flaming and thank you.

Thanks again,
DarkMistSkeleton

[Omaedon]

Man, there's no need to be paranoid over any legal matters involving the web page. Even if she recorded its contents, had a witness view it while it was still online and was willing to testify as to seeing it, the case wouldn't stand up in court because of the circumstances of its creation (you being upset over her infidelity). Judge'd probably be pissed she wasted his time. Unless you have a history of violence, or the bitch ends up dead soon, you have nothing to worry about.

Also, while it's pretty sad you came and posted about girl problems online, I'm in a nurturing mood today, and I'll present some expert advice on your situation.

Turn your frown upside down! =>

Don't look at it as a negative. Think "Hey, I lost a girl friend, but gained a slut in the process!" Good thing bout sluts are they're pretty low maintenance. An "I miss you" here and a few nice comments there, and you've just turned an "ex" into what I call a "cut buddy". Plus, let someone else be her man, that's less drain on your time and money anyways. Let the other sucker do that shit.

So remember:

1. =>
2. Ain't no girlfriend / boyfriend shit to this PIMPIN.
3. Keep the breakup civil.
4. Holla at her in a month or two for teh hook up and teh win!
Old girl gets around though... Might wanna take her to get a pap smear or some shit, lol...

[Blackheart]

Lol, no offense but, the way you talked about your relationship and how you liked her, just seemed like you had a little crush and nothing more.
I wouldnt worry about the police being a issue lol.. you can barely get a cop to help you when a robbery takes place; much more important shit to be worried about then name calling. Calling her a slut is nothing, people address friends with words like that. Oh and chances are, she didnt sleep with the other guy unless infact, she gets around, I think she was just trying to counter attack the jealousy trip for when you said,

I told her I cheated on her and had sex with another girl

Btw, the minute a girl cheats on you, do not give her a second chance or even look for that matter, get the hell away from her or tell her to get the hell out. No offense its reasons like these I try to stay away from woman, no offense to all you good girls, but statistics show that Women cheat on there partners more then Men do.

[DarkMistSkeleton]

Thank you all for bein mature with the exception of some... I do understand that I did take the risk with a long distance relationship and I had good reason to cheat on her as well... Also the guy admited to it online when she hadnt called him and told him... Hell I was even under a different SN so yeah! Anyway... I learned my lesson and I have a new girlfriend that lives much closer anyway... Thanks people. also I am smiling lmao!

[Arwyn]

ummm...it seems like you're not completely over the other girl...and you have a new girlfriend? thats somewhat unfair to the new girl no?

[DarkMistSkeleton]

Actually... The voice mail from the first girl that I got this morning covered the rest lmao rofl!

[Yasomarosoma]

just a question that came to mind when i read this. Hey does your dad know your gay?

[Veritas]

ummm...it seems like you're not completely over the other girl...and you have a new girlfriend? thats somewhat unfair to the new girl no?

shh arwyn shh

[Sadler]

Its all about a goodbye shag

BREAK-UP SEX FTW

[bercus]

wtf you should have stopped thinking about a girl that is shit like her earlier.... are you blind or something? i wonder what you do if someone throws you down a bridge, then says sorry, then does it over and over again...... *shakeshead*.... intelligence (Where is it?) you could have answered all of your questions pretty easy by yourself...

plus you cheatet... so your a bitch too... thers never a reason to cheat to bf/gf... only if she f*** with your best friend... damn your americans have problems.... *sigh*... go drink something and you will get over it ;D

I told her I cheated on her and had sex with another girl

To say that was stupid too, she 100% didnt care about you doing that... oh man.... *sighsagain*... even if she cried she didnt care.... she was never really interested in you after reading all that crap from your 1st post.... *sighsonemore* .... LOL

[Sadler]

Its all about a goodbye shag

BREAK-UP SEX FTW