2nd post and I'm asking for help. Bah, I feel like an ass. ._. Forgive me, I'm shy.
Anyway, I'm having problems lately.. well, I've been having them since I came back to the game. I just hit level 69 on my paladin and I'm having great troubles holding hate in my parties. I'm also confused on my gear.
3 years ago I left the game and took a break, mainly because of money and time problems. When I finally came back I quickly discovered my gear was out of date (It was all VIT/DEF/ENMITY). So I made a few posts on some other boards (allah) and was told I need more DD gear. So I took some time to farm and got some. I started leveling again and now here's what I have. I've got two gear set ups, and no matter which one I use I have major problems.
The first one is basically all my AF gear.
Espadon +1
Iron Ram Shield
Bibiki Seashell
Gallant Coronet
Shield Torque
Buckler Earring/Merman Earring
Gallant Surcoat
Gallant gauntlets
Hercule's Ring/Woodsman Ring
Amemet mantle+1
Life Belt
Gallant Breeches
Gallant Leggings
My second gear set up is my DD.
Espadon +1
Iron Ram Shield
Smart Grenade
Gallant Coronet
Shield Torque
Buckler Earring/Merman Earring
Haubergeon
Fourth Division gauntlets
Hercule's Ring/Woodsman Ring
Amemet mantle+1
Life Belt
RK Breeches
Gallant Leggings
Usually I try to use my DD gear off the bat, but I always end up getting chewed a part and lose HP way too fast. IT doesn't seem to help me hold hate either.
So then I switch to my AF set up, but now I'm losing hate even more often and I'm missing the mob even more and doing like, 0-10 damage. No matter which set up I use I lose hate constantly. It seems like the only time I can hold hate is if I'm fighting an imp and everyone has amnesia so no one can use any JAs or WS. >_>
Am I even using the right gear here? I do the normal thing, I voke/flash, put up reprisal, heal when I get hit. I pop beserk for WS, swap in WS gear, put up defender afterwards, and lose defender when its time to WS again. I use my JA's (especally sentinel + voke or flash). I normally use Tacos for food, and have been experimenting with sushi (dorado and Sole). I just cant seem to keep up and I'm getting very frustrated. I feel like a failure here.
Also, there's no way for me to get any gear from Zilart/COP/TOAU. When I left I was in the process of doing Zilart and my rank missions, and everyone was trying to beat CoP. So I have not finished any of the storylines. I dont think I will for a while either, since I have no LS, and everyone I knew is gone now.. or have forgotten about me. I'm only mentioning this because some people have been telling me to use certain pieces of gear.. which you can only get from completing those storylines and doing content in those expansions, or fighting certain NMs, which I cannot do alone or realistically with a pick up party. ._.
Please help this relic from the past. :/