Originally Posted by
noblemountain
I've done personal bodyguard work for 5 years or so. If it was me in this situation, I would not carry a weapon on me. Keep it in the car. Your presence is what will dissuade them from being idiots. If they do start to get a bit too rowdy for her comfort...leave. If they understand what is expected of them up front, there shouldn't be a problem. I have done quite a few private parties for dancers and only had problems a few times. Most of the time if you come in while she's getting dressed and explain what they're not allowed to do and what will happen if they do (i.e. leaving...don't threaten violence or they'll just get macho) you should be fine. That being said, I am licensed in all the states that I worked in and have concealed carry permits in all of them as well. For what you're doing, that shouldn't be necessary as long as you don't carry the gun inside. I would carry a small taser though. No need to let them see it either. You are dealing with insecure guys who are going to want to act bad in front of their friends and it could get bad quickly if you let it get out of hand. I have seen some of these type of parties get ugly quick and nobody wants to be in a situation like that. Most people are intimidated by a strong presence and as long as you don't show signs of being scared of them or the situation, they should respect what you say and everything will work itself out.