Ex-GF problem

[Rocl]

i hope this pushes her over the edge and she kills herself so you know what you did wrong

[Day]

O wow seriously, as a lurker in this thread and your old thread Orientation I have to say something. And I am not going to candy it up.

/startrant

YOU ARE WAY TOO FUCKING WEAK WHEN IT COMES TO THIS BITCH

To put it bluntly.

I have had to exes who have been crazy types like yours, and both told me they would suicide. I said go ahead and do it.

One backed down, lost her apparent leverage over me, realized I didnt give a shit about her anymore and I never saw her again.

The other one suicided.

You know what? Apart from being sad someone I knew had died, I wasnt especially emo. I cried a few tears when I heard about it.

I dont blame myself though. Everyone has a choice in life, and she made it.

You should get the Restraining Order. If your even half close with your sister she will understand. As for your new GF, she may say she is happy with you communicating to your ex, she really fucking isnt.

Chicks are chick, and they always worry and overthink everything.

This will eventually bite you in the ass.

Good luck either way.

/endrant

*edit* My exes parents blamed me though. I spose you should think about that also, but apparently people actually suiciding after they say they will rarely happens :S

I can't be alone when I say WHAT. THE. FUCK.

[Yabby]

I'm sorry but if a female threated to call rape on me, i would do everything in my power to fuck her over. That is one of the lowest and most fucked up a girl can do.

[Fievel]

I can't be alone when I say WHAT. THE. FUCK.

I stopped reading at suicided

[Miragemaiden]

I can't be alone when I say WHAT. THE. FUCK.

It's the thought that goes through my mind, but he is right in that everyone has a choice to make--she unfortunately chose hers. I understand what he's saying, but I think if I were in the situation I'd at least try and get the girl some help before leaving her alone.

And good lord, guys, the Best Buy gf is definitely not ugly. http://www.rx8club.com/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif

[Ferion]

I can't be alone when I say WHAT. THE. FUCK.

Exactly what I was thinking while reading the post.

[Silenka]

Bitches be crazy, I just don't get it. We need to remove excess estrogen from their systems.

And honestly I have the same view on suicide as dude whose ex killed herself, if someone cheated on me then threatened to kill himself I'd probably tell his parents/relatives or whatever to get him some help but otherwise...not my problem. Suicide is kind of a one-person deal.

[Day]

What an amazing selfish shitty miserable view to have on life.

[Omnipotent]

My friends and I just got back from the bar and we basically had a heart to heart. It's funny, there are so many girls today who go out with totally fucking douchebags because they LOVE being treated like shit. I was with my new BB girl, and my friend was with me, (Male), and 3 other smoking hot girls who was my gf's friends. All of them have totally P.O.S boyfriends who cheat all the time on them and treat them like shit, and they put up with it. It's amazing how stupid some people can be because they stick with this player based on "looking good together", or scared of change. This isn't just a small case, I know at least 15 girls who are with boyfriends or guyfriends who treat them like dirt, but just astonish me because they know nothing else, and they put up with it. /rant off

[Cyn]

OP, the most badass thing you could possibly do in this situation would be to one up her by preemptively committing suicide yourself and leaving a letter carefully crafted to make her feel as guilty about it as possible.

[Cyn]

And then coming back to haunt her. Like, as a ghost n stuff.

[Omnipotent]

OP, the most badass thing you could possibly do in this situation would be to one up her by preemptively committing suicide yourself and leaving a letter carefully crafted to make her feel as guilty about it as possible.

Tempting.... can I have time to think it over?

[Day]

To all the fucking douchebags who couldn't care less if their exes commited suicide... WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? A human life is worth more than your shitty apathy. Jesus fucking christ. Threatening suicide as a means for attention is low, and shitty, but calling the bluff is worse by MILES. Especially someone you once cared about enough to be in a relationship with. I guess you'd feel the same if it was your little sister killing herself? Maybe your best friend commits suicide, I guess it's still a "one person deal"? Seriously I talk a lot of shit on the internetz, but really suicide is no fucking joke. A situation can be handled without pushing someone over the edge like that. I think you're fucking retarded and I can only hope that you wake up from your shitty self indulgence at some point in your miserable lives.

[Cyn]

Stupid people or trolls, if you argue seriously with either of them, you are the dumbest of all.

lol

[Cyn]

Tempting.... can I have time to think it over?

Yeah, but you gotta make sure to do it before she does. Like, give her a call to make sure she's still alive and then do it as soon as you hang up the phone. And tell her something sweet and vaguely promising while you're on the phone.

[Omnipotent]

Yeah, but you gotta make sure to do it before she does. Like, give her a call to make sure she's still alive and then do it as soon as you hang up the phone. And tell her something sweet and vaguely promising while you're on the phone.

I'll put that on my bucket list.

[Silenka]

It's not self-indulgence, honestly, nor is it interest in my own apathy. Perhaps it's because I value my life and don't understand how someone else can choose to so easily forfeit theirs over something as passingly stupid as most of the things people tend to commit suicide over. I simply don't understand it, and I view suicide as that person's choice. If they want to take their own life, who am I to stop them? If my sister tells me she wants to buy a car she can't afford, I might try to advise her against it and say it's not a wise decision. If someone I used to have a relationship with and now do not have much of a connection to, telling them they shouldn't buy the car isn't likely to sway their decision. 'What do you know about me? I'll do what I want.'

People who have that attitude about their own life can do what they please with it. Yes it's tragic when someone offs himself, yes it's absolutely awful and they shouldn't have done it (in most cases), but they chose to and they knew it was something they couldn't take back.

At some point personal fucking responsibility has to come into this. You can go ahead and hold their hand through their whole life and watch them all the time and worry constantly trying to control their retarded fucking impulse to hang themself or whatever but honestly if someone wants to do it that bad let them. They should be fucking adult enough to understand what suicide entails and that they're going to GODDAMN DIE, and if they're okay with that, isn't it selfish to keep them here? Not only selfish, but it's a lot of effort for (usually) nothing.

[Lucavi]

I'm sorry but if a female threated to call rape on me, i would do everything in my power to fuck her over. That is one of the lowest and most fucked up a girl can do.

^ This. Gender Equality what? Shit goes right out the window when you play that card.

[Day]

BG where suicide is like buying a car.

[Rocl]

i cannot even believe that was brought up as an analogy

i mean for serious really

COMMITTING SUICIDE IS LIKE MAKING A POOR DECISION ABOUT BUYING A CAR

IT'LL RUIN YOUR CREDIT