Well....I posted an epic reply, but I took that long typing it that I got logged off and then it wouldn't post...so fuck it. Short version as follows:
Abyssea is excellent for FFXI in 100 times more ways than it is detrimental.
The good stuff:
Exp grinding is greatly reduced. Once you hit the exp cap you level so rapidly that it makes it more than worthwhile putting in the time to get to the cap in the first place.
The majority of the old-school endgame is dead. Thank god. I hated camping HNM's for hours and hours every day for a slim chance that the good stuff was going to drop. A lot of the time we were camping most of the day every day. Free time was reduced to half an hour here, an hour there. If you were lucky. With Abyssea you do it when you want.
The bad stuff:
Old-school parties are more difficult than ever to get now. I've been trying to level my DNC in an 'old-school' party over the weekend. Most of the people I've invited to party said they were holding out for an Abyssea PT so they could be a box opener or they don't want to party at all once they found out that we might have to sync to anywhere other than East Ronfaure [S]. The huge amount of exp available via Abyssea has made people lazy. It's also created a huge number of people that haven't a damn clue how to play their job and who will need to spend the rest of their playing days getting their weapon up to capped on skill now that they can't hit a barn door with it at Lv85. SMN burn did this before but it wasn't as widespread or accessible as Abyssea.
HNM gear has effectively been dumped on from a great height, and much of it is already obsolete. Only a few pieces remain that are worth having. I finally got my long awaited E.Body last month after 4 years of waiting in one queue after another. I thought I'd be a lot more excited about it but honestly...the first thing I thought was "The upcoming WAR body is going to make this look average and I suspect the +2 version will make this look a weak piece". I'd like to see SOME of the HNM gear be incorporated into future trials if there's any way of doing it. I suspect I'll be dropping a lot of very hard and long worked on gear soon though.
Overall though. Abyssea is great and I'm looking forward to 'Heroes'.
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