BG Real Life advice

[Eaglestrike]

HAHAHAHAHA Ask any single woman on here that has had a child themselves of any guy that has had a pregnant significant other. Women's hormones rage so fkn much they act and do things they would never do. That's not an assumption, that's a fact.

I've seen crazy women, my girlfriend has never shown anything like that. If she does because of hormones, it'll be because of the hormones, we'll both know it, and it'll be just fine, because I'm used to crazy bitches. But that won't be the majority of the time.

[Titanss]

Answer me about the meds. Don't bs

[nyaraa]

Actually no, I learned that because of her medication, the baby has an increased chance at being birthed with a disability of some kind(since she's still been on them and baby is apparently up to 5 weeks in already). It's possible to fix financial issues and I have no problem loving the child enough, but a baby knowingly born with a mental defect is a good reason to have an abortion, because that cannot be fixed. I will not endanger the well-being of the child in that way.

It actually has absolutely nothing to do with how she'd act while not on meds, she'd be in pain, but she doesn't get angry, or yell, or scream. She's very calm and reserved about everything, and we get along perfectly with absolutely no issues, seriously.

But keep making assumptions.

lol, any moron with two brain cells can make the obvious connection of 'these meds are known for being bad for a baby ~> bad for baby usually means birth defects ~> therefore abortion is a really good idea'

way to take a joke dude, way to take a joke

[Diabolic Peach]

Ok, I've been hearing my husband talk about this thread for a few days now and I finally had to post something.

You are a fucking idiot. You have no job, your girl can't work. That is an AUTOMATIC choice to abort that poor child. You can't afford to raise it, you can barely afford to take care of yourselves. Oh wait, nvm, your parent's are taking care of you. -=rolls eyes=- BUT the biggest thing to all this. Your girl... has a dabilitating disease that will either put her in most pain she has ever felt without her meds..along with being on bed rest THE ENTIRE PREGNANCY... OR you can give your child disabilities it wouldn't have normally by keeping her on her pain meds. IT will take her at least 6 months to recover after the delivery if you guys go through with this.

STOP BEING A FUCKING DICK AND DO WHATS RIGHT. There is no debate to any of this. Either kill or girl or do what's best for her and for you and for the child. End of point.

You really should have your dick cut off... so you can't share your fkn dumb ass gene's with anyone else. Seriously.

[Byrthnoth]

It would be dumb to keep the child given the situation, but I think we're coming down a little hard on him here. It isn't like he ditched his woman (and left her with the decision) after she told him she was preggers. He certainly could be more mature, but there are many many poorer ways he could have handled this.

At 25 or whatever, his life is not over either. Go back to school, get a job, etc. This is your wake-up call. Don't go back to being a leech.

[Titanss]

Ok, I've been hearing my husband talk about this thread for a few days now and I finally had to post something.

You are a fucking idiot. You have no job, your girl can't work. That is an AUTOMATIC choice to abort that poor child. You can't afford to raise it, you can barely afford to take care of yourselves. Oh wait, nvm, your parent's are taking care of you. -=rolls eyes=- BUT the biggest thing to all this. Your girl... has a dabilitating disease that will either put her in most pain she has ever felt without her meds..along with being on bed rest THE ENTIRE PREGNANCY... OR you can give your child disabilities it wouldn't have normally by keeping her on her pain meds. IT will take her at least 6 months to recover after the delivery if you guys go through with this.

STOP BEING A FUCKING DICK AND DO WHATS RIGHT. There is no debate to any of this. Either kill or girl or do what's best for her and for you and for the child. End of point.

You really should have your dick cut off... so you can't share your fkn dumb ass gene's with anyone else. Seriously.

you should post more

[Cyn]

It would be dumb to keep the child given the situation, but I think we're coming down a little hard on him here. It isn't like he ditched his woman (and left her with the decision) after she told him she was preggers. He certainly could be more mature, but there are many many poorer ways he could have handled this.

At 25 or whatever, his life is not over either. Go back to school, get a job, etc. This is your wake-up call. Don't go back to being a leech.

Seriously, the dude sounds like he is trying to deal with his shit and you guys are just using it as an opportunity to flay him for every poor choice he's ever made.

Also, comparing him to Altwight is really quite a stretch.

[Cyn]

you should post more

Though, comparing Titanss to Altwight wouldn't take much effort at all.

[aurik]

Seriously, the dude sounds like he is trying to deal with his shit and you guys are just using it as an opportunity to flay him for every poor choice he's ever made.

u dum 2.

Don't you see what he's doing? He's trying to justify his own inability to do the right thing by creating a debate in his mind what the right thing to do is. Unfortunately, we saw right through that shit and told him how it is. But, for every 10 people that see it for how it is, 1 person is suckered into "being nice" and telling him "well there's a chance if this, or a chance if that, or maybe the military..." NO. Those are all wrong answers.

He's a layabout, halfway to 30 and neither an education or a resume to show for it. Lives in his moms basement and plays MMOs all day. There's absolutely no hope for him to suddenly be able to support a family. Hell I bet he couldn't do it in 5 years let alone 8 months.

Eaglestrike, prove me wrong first, then start a family. Not the other way around.

By the way, what's the over-under on how long until he and his gf break up?

[Eaglestrike]

Answer me about the meds. Don't bs

Never taken her meds, don't care to. I've never had any interest in drugs, alcohol, smoking, etc. I've avoided all other problems/defects and piled all my failure into not having a job.

So Aurik, basically because you have no issues with abortion, no one else is allowed to have an issue with it?

[Titanss]

Though, comparing Titanss to Altwight wouldn't take much effort at all.

I'm wondering where this always comes from.. Do you want to fuck me?

[aurik]

So Aurik, basically because you have no issues with abortion, no one else is allowed to have an issue with it?

This is about your monumental fuckups, not mine.

[Lovex]

So a few months ago I really fell for a girl, the always effective pull-out method ended up failing. She's pregnant(according to pregnancy test, haven't confirmed with doctor). I love her and everything is fine on that front. But I've been without anything but dinky temp jobs for the past few years. I have no degree, no money, no certifications, crap work history.

I haven;t bothered reading any post past this so i'm not sure what the general consensus is with the rest of the posters but.. Cry more? I'll never understand why people don't use condoms. You're an idiot and fucked for the next 18 years. WHY would you even have unprotected sex knowing... you can't support a child? Where is the logic with some of you guys.
No pussy/Dick is THAT good to not consider the quality of life you and your parner, not to mention your child will have if you get pregnant.

You want some advice? Get a fucking job and get off ffxi boards. The next time you wanna knock boots, use a condom.

BTW, Congrats ^.^

[Mizango]

Wow, talk about a clusterfuck. For starters, how did you think that the "pull out" method was anything but a bad idea? I mean it can be done but you'd first have to obtain "the glow" for the master of masters. You'd have to have a few thousand fucks under your belt before you can even consider that a random option, anything less than that is hit or miss.

My main beef with what you have going on is why you wasted your childless time being a bum instead of planning and building a future? Now you see the gravity of waiting until the last minute to get your shit straight. It sucks for the child because he/she didnt pick slacker parents to raise him/her on welfare and from having dad hop from part time job to part time job. I mean I appreciate the honesty and trying to figure something out, but where was this initiative and maturity when you were "childless"? Going to school is a difficult prospect as is, but doing some with a kid is 10X harder. But like someone suggested, if you are going to keep the child (hope you do) then man the fuck up and try to get into some BLET or Officer or Medic training.

Many trade schools also offer courses in welding and other construction related fields. Granted, these will not be kushy jobs where you sit in an office or where you are comfortable, but that is the price you pay for procrastination and just hobo'ing through life. Construction, Welding or any work at fab shops usually require backbreaking hours and working 5-6 days a week depending on various factors, but you will make good money and it will be steady if nothing else. Just think, a $3.00 box of condoms would have avoided this completely I mean its nothing personal, but I hate hate hate able bodied people just nickel and dime their way through life simply because they are too lazy to get up and better themselves or their families. Always think ahead, fuck living for the moment, because you never know whats awaiting you around the next bend.

If it turns out that she goes and finds out that she isnt pregnant (idk, not reading a weeks worth of "FALCON PUNCH!" to find out) then you need to remember this feeling and using it as a learning experience and make something positive of it and of yourself. Dont play the "whew, I dodged a bullet" card and simply rest on your laurels that there is no kid on the way. You should have the will to do something with your life with or without the proverbial gun to you head. Either way you have a hard decision and I am not envious if you one bit. Luckily I was one year removed from college when I had my first and life is great, I cant imagine the position that you and your girl are in. But if you say you love her as much as you do, then why did it take this for you to wake up and decide to provide for her?

I mean feeling as you say you did should have made you want to better yourself at least to make it so that she doesn't have to work a night shift as a cashier just to make ends meet right? You want to keep her? Then make it so that staying is worth her while. No female in her right mind wants to struggle and nickel and dime through life. There has been some good advice in this thread as far as ive read, you should give some serious thought to some of it. All we can do is offer opinions and lead you to the water hole.

Typed this from my phone. Typos? Dill wid it yo.

[Cyn]

u dum 2.

Don't you see what he's doing? He's trying to justify his own inability to do the right thing by creating a debate in his mind what the right thing to do is. Unfortunately, we saw right through that shit and told him how it is. But, for every 10 people that see it for how it is, 1 person is suckered into "being nice" and telling him "well there's a chance if this, or a chance if that, or maybe the military..." NO. Those are all wrong answers.

He's a layabout, halfway to 30 and neither an education or a resume to show for it. Lives in his moms basement and plays MMOs all day. There's absolutely no hope for him to suddenly be able to support a family. Hell I bet he couldn't do it in 5 years let alone 8 months.

Eaglestrike, prove me wrong first, then start a family. Not the other way around.

By the way, what's the over-under on how long until he and his gf break up?

Dude's not exactly denying it. He came here asking for advice on how to change it. And honestly, he's probably not the only one around here with that problem, so it's amusing how hard people are raging on him.

And yes Titanss.

[Mizango]

This is about your monumental fuckups, not mine.

^ This too. Dont start saber-rattling and trying to deflect any blame from yourself. You asked for "advice", and here you have it. You've got to take the good with the bad. You cant be surprised that people are looking down on you for your choices, are you?

I deal and have dealt with friends and family that bastardize children and cant support them because they too are lazy, worthless creeps. I don't need a soap box to tell you how rampant that is the black community so I wont, but hopefully you can man up and do something about your situation and do whats right for that child that didn't have the luxury of picking a father that had his shit together.

[Cyn]

^ This too. Dont start saber-rattling and trying to deflect any blame from yourself. You asked for "advice", and here you have it. You've got to take the good with the bad. You cant be surprised that people are looking down on you for your choices, are you?

I deal and have dealt with friends and family that bastardize children and cant support them because they too are lazy, worthless creeps. I don't need a soap box to tell you how rampant that is the black community so I wont, but hopefully you can man up and do something about your situation and do whats right for that child that didn't have the luxury of picking a father that had his shit together.

To be fair, Aurik isn't really giving him advice so much as he's telling him to an hero himself for being the scum of the earth.

[Byrthnoth]

For starters, how did you think that the "pull out" method was anything but a bad idea? I mean it can be done but you'd first have to obtain "the glow" for the master of masters. You'd have to have a few thousand fucks under your belt before you can even consider that a random option, anything less than that is hit or miss.

But do you need to have Sho'nuff level glow:

Spoiler: show

http://theneave.com/wp-content/uploa...06/shonuff.jpg

or Bruce Leeroy level glow?:

Spoiler: show

http://www.badmovies.org/movies/last...astdragon8.jpg

I'd assume you'd need Bruce Leeroy level, because if it isn't whole-body glow it just isn't going to work.

[Mizango]

To be fair, Aurik isn't really giving him advice so much as he's telling him to an hero himself for being the scum of the earth.

lol ahhhh

But do you need to have Sho'nuff level glow:

Spoiler: show

http://theneave.com/wp-content/uploa...06/shonuff.jpg

or Bruce Leeroy level glow?:

Spoiler: show

http://www.badmovies.org/movies/last...astdragon8.jpg

I'd assume you'd need Bruce Leeroy level, because if it isn't whole-body glow it just isn't going to work.

Right on the money! You kick ass for picking up on that reference haha

[Byrthnoth]

Right on the money! You kick ass for picking up on that reference haha

I'm just a fellow connoisseur of fine films.