Well, the last pic I posted got me reamed out because it was an lsmate (like you guys would have known who he is? I blanked out his name anyway), but since I got kicked from the shell for a dumb reason, I'm all clear to post this. :D
Backstory: My shellmates and I are fighting Indrik lowman, NIN/THF/BLU/SAM/WHM (or BLM left earlier and we were doing it for shits and giggles). We got it down to low HP, Sadpanda (our SAM) Fudo'd it down to 2%, then it turned and Lance'd him for 7.2k, and he goes down. I Everyone's Grudged it on BLU, it went down. Didn't intend to kill it while he was down, and at the same time spaced about the whole atma bit. He gets pissy because he didn't get the atma due to being dead. I made a mistake, but honestly after getting reamed out several times today I'm a bit pissy myself and simply leave. He tells me that I need to stop acting like a sackholder - which he still hasn't clarified? I've argued decisions but I've not given orders - and breaks my shell after I call him a child for flipping out over an atma.
At this point I talk with the shell leader. He and I discuss things, and he gives more valid reasons that I should be kicked; i.e. I was absent from events because I was working on a paper and idly soloing BLM on the side. That sorta thing? I can see it. I'm a little argumentative too, that's okay. These are valid reasons. However, he goes on to say that he would repearl me, but because he doesn't want 'bad blood' in his shell, i.e. fights between me and Panda, he decided not to. Now here I get a bit annoyed, because I can handle being in shells with people I don't like and simply ignore them unless I have to acknowledge them. If anyone would be likely to start the fight, it would be the other person's problem. In the end though, I respect the shell leader's decision; it is his choice in the end. Gotta move on sometime.
Now, I send a tell to panda letting him know he's blacklisted. This isn't the first time he's been pissy and flipped out at me because he didn't get something. Sent him a tell, blisted him, moved on with my life. I have a scroll of Quake to camp, tyvm. And then I get a POL message from him, and this is the amusing part:
I got RL carded, yo. ;(
I'm amused that he commented though, we've seen each other via Skype chat. And yet supposedly I'm the ugly one when I have a relationship of two years going and he's single. Surprise! I guess I've had it all wrong this whole time.
First shell I've ever been kicked from. It does hurt nonetheless, I like most of the people in it. =(