Walking in

[kuronosan]

So ... long story short - girl and I were getting busy today at her house and her mom walks in after we finish. Now I feel extremely awkward because her mother said something like "I trusted you" and it's making me feel extremely uncomfortable going over her house.

I want to be supportive of my girlfriend, as I'm pretty close to proposing to her, but I also don't want to be bothered by her mother about "nailing her daughter".

Am I in the ethical right here? Do I really need to explain myself at this point to her mother or justify the fact that I'm with her daughter (pro-tip, her mom's a church-goer who doesn't believe in premarital relations)?

I guess I'm angry because I want to be able to just walk in and act like nothing really happened instead of being lectured about it. Her mother wasn't even supposed to be home and just let herself in. We're both adults. This is our choice. Shouldn't that be the end of it?

No. No pics.

[Nitsuki]

bang her mom.

[jmc]

We're both adults. This is our choice. Shouldn't that be the end of it?

Your going up against a woman dedicated to religion. This does not work

Sure you can do your own thing, you are a adult..... but you will def. be lectured on how your going to hell, or something

[kuronosan]

bang her mom.

Truth.

[#686578]

Her mom's married so it's ok if you have sex with her

[kuronosan]

Yea, I'm not much of a MILF guy.

[shaddix]

I had this issue, her parents told me that if I ever spoke to their 19 year old daughter again they would call the police. My solution was to just not go to her house anymore. You can try to tell her it's none of her business and you and she are both grown but it will have no effect. You should still tell her mom at least once though just so you can tell her(mom) you treated her(mom) respectfully.
In my situation, just not going over there anymore had a fair amount of blowback due to her daughter being away from the house a lot more: mom following her when she left, telling the rest of her family she's a slut, calling her boss etc etc. Took about a year and a shitty Christmas before her mother got over it.

[Moss]

I would take the "high road" and just try to stay on the mom's good side, even if you feel her way of thinking is retarded and unfair.

[Heavencloud]

How old is she?

[kuronosan]

Old enough to drink (legally).

[shidobu]

Yea don't shoot yourself in the foot. If your close to "matrimonial suicide" last thing you want is a new mother in law whos spends most of her time trying to sabotage your marriage.

[clobetasol]

Inject the mom with 10cc of KCl problem solved.

[kuronosan]

Oh come on dude, that's unethical.

[Apelila]

Was this at her moms house or at her house? If it was at her house (IE she doesn't live with parents) screw what the mom thinks. It doesn't sound like that though.

[kuronosan]

Well technically to be fair it's not her mother's house either. The stepfather pays the rent. Nobody else was home at the time.

[vagus]

If you're not religious and her family is. Good luck in the future.

[Lucavi]

Well technically to be fair it's not her mother's house either. The stepfather pays the rent. Nobody else was home at the time.

Simple answer. Fuck only at your place until you can be sure you two have figured out a way to fucking fuck discreetly in any place where her mom can show up. Man up, apologize if needed (keep it short and don't take shit from her; one sentence is fine, and then roll out), and let it blow over. No need to piss off the girl by disrespecting her mom, even if they aren't that close, and its a good way to show the girl how much of an adult you can be by handling the situation with class.

Normally I'd suggest something like buttfucking the mother in the shower or something, but I've been in that situation before and when I did it the way I suggested, everything turned out peachy keen.

[Kwijiboe]

If you just walk in, it will take some time for things to return to normal.

If you don't walk in anymore, the relationship will deteriorate over time.

Which do you want?

[Guitarman]

how old are you both? being serious.

[Blarg]

devil made you do it