To be fair Deejay, I too and many others like you and I are from those sorts of backgrounds, its just that some of us refuse to settle for being a statistic. I get that life is harder in a broken, single parent household, but thats where their parents should have parented. I know that is easier said that done, but its the damn truth. My mom told me from the time I was like 11 that she wasnt "raising niggas" and if we wanted to be niggas then we needed to gtfo. She kept it real and I appreciated that, I went to jail twice, not once did I call her because again, she told me from the fucking jump that If I ever get locked up then I needed to call the niggas that got me in that position to get me out, which I did and I saw nothing came from it. I saw at that moment what she was trying to teach me; you cant rely on friends, because more times than not your friends are looking out for themselves, first and foremost.
We've all been there done that. My brothers and did the dope thing, used one of my friends house as a trap house, lost dozens and dozens of friends to guns and drugs, been shot at etc. Some choose to use that as a spring board to get the fuck out and not use the "whoa is me" excuse. I too was an NCAA athlete at one point, but I worked twice as hard in the classroom as I did at sports and made my way out. Hypothetically, whats stopping Jim Jackson; a blue chip RB from Jacksonville, from doing the same? None, hes being taught at home and from around his peers that the NFL and fame is the ONLY way to make a difference. No one is putting a gun to his head and making him play football and making him think that coasting by with a 1.8 gpa is good.
Shit starts at home, tell big mama to get her fat ass up and teach some accountability. And I know, "teachers bro, teachers" but keep in mind that growing up in Hidden Valley, I not once went to school with anyone white, Asian, Hispanic or any other nationality until my 8th grade year lol. It was the epitome of nigga central, and if you watch TV then you see and know first hand how bad Hidden Valley is, so it was not exactly a desirable place for ANY teachers. As a matter of fact our entire staff from K-6th then my 7th grade year were 100% black. Myself and several of my friends (including your NFL teams best WR, Hakeem Nicks) put excuses to the side and got out. Hakeem plays football, I know, but he is a really really smart dude.
Didnt mean to write a book, but this is my number one pet peeve with life. Niggas always feel like they have been slighted, or that the world and history "owes" us something, which is many respects they do, but at the end of the day we control our own destiny. Many of these NFL players had the same opportunities that we all had, who's to say what they could go on to do if they had applied themselves in school the same as they did in the dope game, making mix tapes, starting record labels or playing Madden? The problem is niggas see Manny Fresh and want to be Big Tymer, when they should be looking at Clifford Johnson, Warren Washington and Ronald Mallett, 3 or many of the worlds renowned black physicists (wonder how many of even your friends know them). I need to find that thread where Woozie and I, talk about our pasts and what lead us to where we are today. Woozies story is far doper than mine, he was almost killed and wound up spending time bedridden in the hospital, with nothing to read but a Math book. Sorry, I dont buy the "I was born into niggerdom" excuse, because I was too and I made it out and more than exceeded my expectations. People choose to be ignorant, there is nothing else to it.
At the end of the day they play a game for millions and millions of dollars. Some make more in one year on special teams than we'd make is 10-20 years of working with outr degrees. My apologies for not feeling bad for any of these busted ass niggas. Guess you should have majored in Money management or Information technology instead of Physical Education or Communication/Business with pipe dreams of getting HAWD NIGGA RECORDZ off the ground floor. Slaves didnt have a choice, no one in modern times are forced into indentured servitude by being fleeced into returning punts because you can blaze a 4.2 40 on turf.
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