Valentine's Day

[Kuya]

Although, honestly, i would just prefer to find a community of bisexuals to just talk to. Just talk to someone who understands, and whom you can ask for advice on how they deal with things. Would trade a boyfriend for that in a second.

[Conrad]

I am 23 and I've only had two relationships, one of which was online and seems superficial in hindsight
And the other one makes me feel like there's something inherently wrong with me, if she got scared and gave up just as she started to know me better. The only people who have accepted me for who I am are male friends or females whom I will never pursue romantically. Definitely get the "understanding" thing.

[Kuya]

yea, understanding is perhaps a better word than caring, because perhaps the latter often follows the former

i just sometimes feel isolated, and i can't really rely on straight friends cause they don't know shit about anything, and i wish gay friends had the decency of realizing that advocating for tolerance while at the same time professing their hatred of bis doesn't actually make sense.

I mean, they least they could do, even if they really thought bis are not real, is not be so hostile so if they actually do run into a real bi guy, they don't make him feel like he's living in a pool of sharks.

[Conrad]

Fuck this "single & happy" bullshit. I'm in my 20s and have been alone the vast majority of my developmental life, I need to experience the other side too.

[Kuya]

but i guess when you don't think someone is real, you also don't think their feelings are real too

[Conrad]

but i guess when you don't think someone is real, you also don't think their feelings are real too

That's the definition of the internet

[#686578]

When i was straight, getting a chick was the most difficult shit in the world, and it was a chore trying to get a bitch whilst trying to avoid the friend zone. It was even harder since at that time i had very low esteem and was quite a loser.

Yeah, but, you were also in Puerto Rico at that time too.

I'm not saying Puerto Rican girls are bitches or anything but... wait... no yeah that's what I'm saying.

[Lucienne]

The way I see it, relationships aren't essentially about caring, or understanding. They are selfish institutions based on your desire to be with another person and satisfying your own needs. The stronger the desire the more you are willing to sacrifice for the person in question. Everything else can be, and often is, recieved from other sources anyway.

[Kuya]

Can't say since i haven't been around women from other countries

[Kuya]

That's the definition of the internet

when your real life mimics the emotional nurturing of the internet, you got problems

[#686578]

Maybe Skirk should date Kuya, it'd be straight for Skirk because Kuya is a black female and all

[#686578]

But it'd be gay for Kuya because Skirk is a guy, and dating guys is gay.

[#686578]

I defined a while back that if you're not doing hot chicks at every conceivable possible opportunity you're gay

[#686578]

Most women are gay

[Lucienne]

Wouldn't it completely ruin their freindship though?

[#686578]

I've never known a relationship to ruin two people's friendship

[Conrad]

The way I see it, relationships aren't essentially about caring, or understanding. They are selfish institutions based on your desire to be with another person and satisfying your own needs. The stronger the desire the more you are willing to sacrifice for the person in question. Everything else can be, and often is, recieved from other sources anyway.

That's a rather morbid way of looking at it. You have a point, but I ultimately disagree with you. I was fortunate to bear witness to a healthy relationship growing up with my parents, though.

[#686578]

That's probably never happened before in the history of all time

[Conrad]

I've never known a relationship to ruin two people's friendship

ha

[#686578]

It is a laughable concept indeed, I'm glad you found the humor in it