Consequences were the same

[NynJa]

1-gdshdsh...whos garbled sock acct is this?
2-When gdshdsh has children, I'd be willing to make the following bets:
10:1 odds they'll have a warrant for their arrest before their 13th birthday
3:1 odds a warrant before their 16th

That leads to another problem that needs to be resolved. Kids know they can do whatever the fuck they want because "hey who cares, my record gets cleared when I turn 18".

[NynJa]

Some kids just want to be roughed up to be kept in line, I remember asking one of the kids why he acted up so much... he said because his daddy wasn't there.

Um, unless I'm misunderstanding, doesnt that mean the kid thinks he can get away with shit because his father isnt around to punish him?

[Seanr]

more or less yes i suppose because nobody was taking the time to get in that ass so to speak. I worked in a mixed environment. We had the counselors who would take the "gdshdsh" approach to discipline up there, and then counselors who took a slightly more stern approach. Guess who he acted up around?

I had another one of my beloved lil youngins (about 10 or 11) ask another girl when she was gonna let him fuck.
Sometimes kids need a pop in the mouth, and I don't mean a closed fist like Jessi Slaughter got

[Abandon]

more or less yes i suppose because nobody was taking the time to get in that ass so to speak. I worked in a mixed environment. We had the counselors who would take the "gdshdsh" approach to discipline up there, and then counselors who took a slightly more stern approach. Guess who he acted up around?

I had another one of my beloved lil youngins (about 10 or 11) ask another girl when she was gonna let him fuck.
Sometimes kids need a pop in the mouth, and I don't mean a closed fist like Jessi Slaughter got

i had to lol at that; i know grown men who are too chickenshit to ask that, even when they've been dating the girl for ages.

[Kuya]

You know, BG pontificates a lot about child rearing when most of the people on this forum have no kids.

[Kerberoz]

Well, most people who do have kids are terrible parents, so...

[NynJa]

You know, BG pontificates a lot about child rearing when most of the people on this forum have no kids.

Perhaps thats because we know we cant raise a kid at this stage of our life instead of being 18 and bringing a child into the world leaving him/her with grandma 6 days of the week because were still trying to sort our own lives out. "aww I want a baby theyre sooooo cyooooote"

I know of 3 girls who had kids when they were still 16-20 living at home, whos kids now spend most of the time with their grandparents because the mother is physically incapable of raising them. Why did I say "the mother is incapable of raising them"? Because they were young and stupid and the father wasn't there. Which leads to the vicious cycle since mothers dont have it in them to be an intimidating force to teach the kid a damn thing, and without a father figure, most girls tend to become epic sluts to fill the void of a male figure that was never there.

[Kuya]

Well, most people who do have kids are terrible parents, so...

It stands to reason, that if most parents are terrible parents, than most of you are terrible children.

[Abandon]

I myself have no kids; you'd be correct on that, Kuya. However, between watching the upbringing that myself and my siblings had, and watching my brother (and sometimes participating) raise his kids, you can see what things work on some kids, and what don't. One of his girls can take a beating all day and not phase her, but if you tell her "i'm disappointed in you, i thought you were smarter than that" or something to that effect, she'll break down and cry as if bambi just died for the first time. I'm not saying to beat kids on the mess-up, no matter the severity. I'm saying, if your kid fucks up, and you know that all that pussy "johnny, please don't do that" for the 41st time isn't gonna work, switch it up and give that ass a pop. You'd be surprised.

[Chun Liroy]

Beatings are the best form of punishment. Fuck what ya heard. I used to think when I was younger "when I have kids they are going to be kings" but nawww fuck that.

[NynJa]

I myself have no kids; you'd be correct on that, Kuya. However, between watching the upbringing that myself and my siblings had, and watching my brother (and sometimes participating) raise his kids, you can see what things work on some kids, and what don't. One of his girls can take a beating all day and not phase her, but if you tell her "i'm disappointed in you, i thought you were smarter than that" or something to that effect, she'll break down and cry as if bambi just died for the first time. I'm not saying to beat kids on the mess-up, no matter the severity. I'm saying, if your kid fucks up, and you know that all that pussy "johnny, please don't do that" for the 41st time isn't gonna work, switch it up and give that ass a pop. You'd be surprised.

Ironically, this seems to follow suit for the entire basis of males and females.

Women seem to care more about their public appearance and how they stand socially, and tend to be more hurt my mental anguish...whereas males are about phsyical conduct, aka: alphamale.

[Abandon]

And seriously, a lot of kids get sent to their rooms these days. The issue there? How many of these kids have xbawx, ps3, wii, a pc, tv, stereo, or some sneaky hand-held to have fun with while they're grounded? How many of you actually take power cords out, and hide remotes, yank batteries, etc? If you're gonna punish them, fucking do it.

[Melena]

Seriously, I get the vibe when we say "hit your kid" you're thinking "you broke my vase? Stay there while i go get the bat"
you people are bigger idiots than i thought. I'm not unleashing a killer instinct-inspired combo to the face; I'm giving solid pops to the ass, or a good whack on the back of the head to remind a kid "hey, when you don't fuck up, i don't have to do this." Hell, my brother gives his eldest son wicked noogies to let him know he fucked up.

Abandon, I think we were cut from the same cloth when it comes to discipline. Parents are so fucking scared of youtube and shit, it's sickening. Kids sometimes need the occasional pop to the head to remind them that fucking up isn't cool or going to get you everything.

[Chun Liroy]

And seriously, a lot of kids get sent to their rooms these days. The issue there? How many of these kids have xbawx, ps3, wii, a pc, tv, stereo, or some sneaky hand-held to have fun with while they're grounded? How many of you actually take power cords out, and hide remotes, yank batteries, etc? If you're gonna punish them, fucking do it.

My parents would ground me from my room, actually lol. Getting sent to your room is the best thing possible tbh, don't have to deal with any beatings or scolding.

[Abandon]

Ironically, this seems to follow suit for the entire basis of males and females.

Women seem to care more about their public appearance and how they stand socially, and tend to be more hurt my mental anguish...whereas males are about phsyical conduct, aka: alphamale.

damn right. in my house, i am the alpha male. fuck the nonsense.

[gdshdsh]

2-When gdshdsh has children, I'd be willing to make the following bets:
10:1 odds they'll have a warrant for their arrest before their 13th birthday
3:1 odds a warrant before their 16th

That leads to another problem that needs to be resolved. Kids know they can do whatever the fuck they want because "hey who cares, my record gets cleared when I turn 18".

It's ok, i'm never having kids.

Beatings are the best form of punishment.

Fyi, every psychologist in the world disagrees with you. It's ok though, your parents hit you, and you turned out fine, so they must all be wrong.

[i-Clarke-]

Beating is just a form of fear tactic. Fear tactics work in this world. You put fear of something in front of a kid, teen and an adult and they most likely will stay away from a certain thing or be kept in line. Like laws and the bible.

[Chun Liroy]

It's ok, i'm never having kids.

Fyi, every psychologist in the world disagrees with you. It's ok though, your parents hit you, and you turned out fine, so they must all be wrong.

Psychology is bullshit anyways. Have fun with your kid being the boss and you being the bitch because you didn't want to "abuse" your kid. Negative reinforcement works.

[NynJa]

Fyi, every psychologist in the world disagrees with you.

yup...

The following is a quote from Dr. Laura Schlessinger's book, Parenthood by Proxy: Don't Have Them If You Won't Raise Them:

Over my years in broadcasting, I have been amazed at the growing sense of impotency in parents. Often when I make concrete suggestions the response is, "But isn't that kind of tough? I mean--doing that will have a long-range effect on their lives."
As will the results of their acts of defiance! This is why I always recommend creative, swift and terrible action so that children take their parents seriously and learn "the lesson" permanently. This technique works wonders with children used to continuous pouting, arguing, negotiating, manipulation, and who easily tolerate feeble consequences to behave badly. (p. 187)

I'd love to see you ignore your kid (presuming you ever have any, though you've stated you'll never have any either cuz you're fuckugly or you know you'll be a shitty parent cuz youre a panzy) in the supermarket when they reach up n grab a box of lucky charms, and you nonchalantly just place it back on the shelf, and they grab it again and throw it in the cart, and you once again nonchalantly put it back on the shelf, then they start whining and crying and go "I WANT ITTTTT WAAAAAAAAH", and everyone else in the store is looking at you waiting for you to control your kid, but you'll just waltz down whistling to yourself with your blinders of the world convincing you that what you're doing is A-Ok because you keep telling yourself "I"m raising my kid properly ^_^"

[Blarg]

One size fits all parenting is the bestest