Girlfriend problems...

[vagus]

yes, yes we are. you just have to find the type of crazy that suits you.

Lol. Love it.


I'd have to agree with most of the other posters. This is obviously her issue. Should be honest with her and just cut her loose. If you're nice about it, maybe you'll get back together. Being dink could bite u in the ass in the future. Lol.

[Doombard]

Probably already blew the guy at least so dump her.

[shidobu]

Ahh BG never change.
And yea OP you should abandon that sinking ship.
And post nudes/tits faggot.

[Fhqwghads]

Remember the other thread months ago where the guys was basically in the same camp as the OP here? Told my wife and our friend (female) who lives with us about this new thread, and they both laughed and said "tell him it's over and move on."

Just sayin'.

[ikariiiii]

its over

and

stereotypes exist for a reason

[Khamsin]

The only thing that could have possibly saved this was putting yourself in a position of power over the relationship. Right now, she has all the power. She told you she had feelings for another guy and you give her "two weeks". Whether you two stay together or not is entirely her decision, and she knows it.

Had you gotten pissed, confronted her point blank and talked this out face to face, without letting her get an edge on you, it might have ended differently. The key is to believe she's not good enough for you anymore, and that whether you would let her stay with you is far from guaranteed. Note, I said that you need to believe she's not good enough for you. If you believe it, she will. She needs to know she's committed the wrong, so it's her ass in the balance, not yours.

Yet, somehow, you're acting like you did something wrong, and want her to stay, and if she leaves, the door will be open for her to come back. She's got all the leverage, and you've got nothing she wants. She has your approval no matter what, and impressing you is meaningless since you give it freely. Make her earn your approval, and respect, and it'll have more value. Then, she might have actually wanted it.

[Yugl]

Khamsin is a MOD, you should take his advice on power grabbing and exploitation.

[Tyche]

I've been around BG long enough to know that, as a community, we pretty much bat .1000 on predicting relationship outcomes, and always give pretty damned sound advice. Getting the opinion from people who aren't vested in you and couldn't care less about you or your significant other is the most objective viewpoint you can get. I've also been in the OP's girlfriend's position and the OP's position. It doesn't end well either way. Cut your losses kid.

Sincerely,
Someone who isn't a "nerdy virgin" or whatever some dumbass posted earlier.

[Cephius]

Hey, we get it, it's not easy to let go of someone you care about. We've all been there. So listen to us when we say even though it fucks with your head at first, the faster you let go and move on the faster you'll feel better about yourself and be emotionally ready to date someone else. It's worth it.

3 out of 3 mods agree, dump the bitch

[plue]

Why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? The only thing that should be keeping people together in a relationship is trust, respect, and love. If you don't have those, why stay together?

[Yugl]

Why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? The only thing that should be keeping people together in a relationship is trust, respect, and love. If you don't have those, why stay together?

For power, control, and free labor?

[Tyche]

Hey, we get it, it's not easy to let go of someone you care about. We've all been there. So listen to us when we say even though it fucks with your head at first, the faster you let go and move on the faster you'll feel better about yourself and be emotionally ready to date someone else. It's worth it.

3 out of 3 mods agree, dump the bitch

4 out of 4

[bigrougabagel]

we pretty much bat .1000 on predicting relationship outcomes, and always give pretty damned sound advice. Getting the opinion from people who aren't vested in you and couldn't care less about you or your significant other is the most objective viewpoint you can get.

This. You're getting info and advice from people wholly disconnected from the issue that have been in exact or very similar situations. You are getting the benefit of their hindsight. When you are deep into a problem like this, you will not think it through clearly, it's impossible unless you're a sociopath. Seriously take to heart the bulk of the info in this thread.

[Jaregue]

i was in a similar boat a few times before also, the hardest part is getting advice you don't want to hear (ex. dump her and move on)

now that I've been single for a while, i think about all the advice i got from my relationships, and had i only listened to half of what people told me, I'd be much better off right now.

anyway, just talk to her, tell her how you feel and see how it goes. if she leaves you then just remember its for the best and that she wasn't good enough for you, and you should not stress about it.

[Yugl]

if she leaves you then just remember its for the best and that she wasn't good enough for you

It's one thing to give him honest advice. It's another thing to lie to him. Shame on you.

Edit: ELMER TELL HIM TO DUMP! 5/5 go!

[Moss]

you know whats going to be on your mind for those two weeks? Yea.

seriously, worst idea ever

[arus2001]

Surprised nobody's said to stick it in her pooper yet. Then dump her.

[Takedown3]

99 problems

[Kasrus]

He's clearly pussied out already.

Can we get nudes of the gf, then /thread please? lol

[Ragnell]

Surprised nobody's said to stick it in her pooper yet. Then dump her.

You clearly didn't read this thread sir