women of spam and women who ocassionally browse spam

[Rocl]

using wikipedia's shades of blue: like a sky or powder blue? it also has something resembling pin stripes

[Rocl]

its a light blue, and not jessica biel if you googled btw

[Odon]

Is it a pale yellow, like a baby chicken?

[isladar]

What would you say is your opinon on sex for example? Do you think it's something that you need to have weekly? Monthly? How long are you willing to go without it? How long do you think other women are willing to be without sex and how would you compare this to men? I have a few other questions but i'll start with this.

I'm trying to verify a hypothesis i recently came to about women and sexuality.

Self-reporting, so all the usual caveats, can't speak for anyone but lil' ol' me, etc. I think time-tables are flatly ridiculous. I think rationing sex like a water bill or a weekly TV show turns sex into the equivalent of those things; something enjoyable (okay water bill is a poor example), but in the end something that becomes more about the schedule than about the act. My sexual activity/appetite fluctuates, as does most peoples', I'm assuming, but I can say easily that if I find myself wanting sexual contact and it is unavailable to me, I am not left in some unimaginable wasteland of unfulfilled desire.

While you weren't asking this specifically, I feel that the 'with whom' factors in immensely if you are going to bring up sexuality with regards to gender (or probably more accurately, with regards to me). I have not ever experienced sexual desire towards someone I did not know. If I pass an attractive man on the street, I'll take note, obviously, but that aesthetic recognition has never seemed to equate to "...and boy I'd like to have sex with him". It's always "that man is attractive", and I move on, if it's even given that much thought.

I am in a stable, monogamous relationship, so my sexual desire is far more entwined with who my partner is rather than a bodily function. I have sex with my partner because I want to have sex with him. In so stating, if my partner were away for an extended period of time, I would be willing to 'go without', as it were, for the duration of that absence, as sex is something that is intrinsically related to his person, and not the act itself.

That said, I do enjoy relating to his person whenever it's appropriate.

If I were to compare this to 'most men', though obviously there are exceptions, I would say that the sexual drive of men is higher than women. They would prefer to have more sex, more often. I think were men able to have all the sex they wanted we'd have far less books, art, politics, and civilization to participate with, as nothing would get done. I'm not sure how to generalize very much with 'other women' and 'men', as there are so many factors I'm literally retyping each sentence as I go because I keep tripping myself up with "Well women of course have a sexual drive, but..." You've asked a rather broad question, so hopefully we can noodle it down to more specific lines.

[Rocl]

its more lemon
or like this wow

[Odon]

What color shoes do you have

[Rocl]

i only got black to work w/ here

[Callisto]

Self-reporting, so all the usual caveats, can't speak for anyone but lil' ol' me, etc. I think time-tables are flatly ridiculous. I think rationing sex like a water bill or a weekly TV show turns sex into the equivalent of those things; something enjoyable (okay water bill is a poor example), but in the end something that becomes more about the schedule than about the act. My sexual activity/appetite fluctuates, as does most peoples', I'm assuming, but I can say easily that if I find myself wanting sexual contact and it is unavailable to me, I am not left in some unimaginable wasteland of unfulfilled desire.

While you weren't asking this specifically, I feel that the 'with whom' factors in immensely if you are going to bring up sexuality with regards to gender (or probably more accurately, with regards to me). I have not ever experienced sexual desire towards someone I did not know. If I pass an attractive man on the street, I'll take note, obviously, but that aesthetic recognition has never seemed to equate to "...and boy I'd like to have sex with him". It's always "that man is attractive", and I move on, if it's even given that much thought.

I am in a stable, monogamous relationship, so my sexual desire is far more entwined with who my partner is rather than a bodily function. I have sex with my partner because I want to have sex with him. In so stating, if my partner were away for an extended period of time, I would be willing to 'go without', as it were, for the duration of that absence, as sex is something that is intrinsically related to his person, and not the act itself.

That said, I do enjoy relating to his person whenever it's appropriate.

If I were to compare this to 'most men', though obviously there are exceptions, I would say that the sexual drive of men is higher than women. They would prefer to have more sex, more often. I think were men able to have all the sex they wanted we'd have far less books, art, politics, and civilization to participate with, as nothing would get done. I'm not sure how to generalize very much with 'other women' and 'men', as there are so many factors I'm literally retyping each sentence as I go because I keep tripping myself up with "Well women of course have a sexual drive, but..." You've asked a rather broad question, so hopefully we can noodle it down to more specific lines.

ladyboners

[Rocl]

i only got black to work w/ here

very non-descript shoe, though i have these too:

http://img2.prosperent.com/images/25.../P12661688.jpg

[Odon]

Black works, my favorite button down is a pale blue, so I do that a bit. The yellow might be a little too intense, if you have anything else that could go with it you might want to.

[Odon]

If it was a pale yellow it would work

[Odon]

But visualizing it in my head, I don't think I would do that.

[Rocl]

idk, i need to get to modelling this outfit later tonight/tomorrow afternoon

[Rocl]

then we shall see

[Odon]

What is this for

[Callisto]

Black works, my favorite button down is a pale blue, so I do that a bit. The yellow might be a little too intense, if you have anything else that could go with it you might want to.

man if you're already into the baby blue button-downs, let me school you to the sweet sauce that is my baby blue polo

[Kuya]

Self-reporting, so all the usual caveats, can't speak for anyone but lil' ol' me, etc. I think time-tables are flatly ridiculous. I think rationing sex like a water bill or a weekly TV show turns sex into the equivalent of those things; something enjoyable (okay water bill is a poor example), but in the end something that becomes more about the schedule than about the act. My sexual activity/appetite fluctuates, as does most peoples', I'm assuming, but I can say easily that if I find myself wanting sexual contact and it is unavailable to me, I am not left in some unimaginable wasteland of unfulfilled desire.

While you weren't asking this specifically, I feel that the 'with whom' factors in immensely if you are going to bring up sexuality with regards to gender (or probably more accurately, with regards to me). I have not ever experienced sexual desire towards someone I did not know. If I pass an attractive man on the street, I'll take note, obviously, but that aesthetic recognition has never seemed to equate to "...and boy I'd like to have sex with him". It's always "that man is attractive", and I move on, if it's even given that much thought.

I am in a stable, monogamous relationship, so my sexual desire is far more entwined with who my partner is rather than a bodily function. I have sex with my partner because I want to have sex with him. In so stating, if my partner were away for an extended period of time, I would be willing to 'go without', as it were, for the duration of that absence, as sex is something that is intrinsically related to his person, and not the act itself.

That said, I do enjoy relating to his person whenever it's appropriate.

If I were to compare this to 'most men', though obviously there are exceptions, I would say that the sexual drive of men is higher than women. They would prefer to have more sex, more often. I think were men able to have all the sex they wanted we'd have far less books, art, politics, and civilization to participate with, as nothing would get done. I'm not sure how to generalize very much with 'other women' and 'men', as there are so many factors I'm literally retyping each sentence as I go because I keep tripping myself up with "Well women of course have a sexual drive, but..." You've asked a rather broad question, so hopefully we can noodle it down to more specific lines.

Okay, good. Now, your feelings on sex, how would you describe them? I often hear that for women, sex is more of a relational thing. That is, it is something you share with someone meaningful to you, rather than something (in the case of some men) that you seek out for the pure pleasure of it (like you would a delicious sugary treat). Would you say this is true for you?

As for this part:

I have not ever experienced sexual desire towards someone I did not know. If I pass an attractive man on the street, I'll take note, obviously, but that aesthetic recognition has never seemed to equate to "...and boy I'd like to have sex with him". It's always "that man is attractive", and I move on, if it's even given that much thought.

If you've ever had any discussions on your views on sex with other women, what were other women's reactions to this and/or did they share the same sentiment? How else have you heard other women (again, assuming you've discussed this with other women before) describe their need for sex and how they feel sex should be/is about?

[Odon]

I'm pretty sure I was wearing it in that picture I posted a few days ago.

[Alleya]

Kuya I've seen some shit but this is a really weird fetish you've got going on.

[Kuya]

sorry rocl it seems odon is already on point with your question so i will entrust my judgement in his, may he not fail you