women of spam and women who ocassionally browse spam

[Kuya]

Kuya I've seen some shit but this is a really weird fetish you've got going on.

my fetish is weird fetishes

[Rocl]

What is this for

award ceremony. friend of mine is getting some military award in the ROTC or some bullshit and apparently they're strict with dress code. he bought 2 tickets for his parents to attend but in the end they couldn't and bailed, and he asked me (being his future roommate) and some other good friend of his, i have this really cute teal shirt, but he is against me being really flamboyant

i hadn't planned on dressing for anything other than the occasional party (since last year i brought suits) so i only have the one pair of slacks and two dressy-dress shirts, i'm just yanking one of his ties because my standard black tie won't work and he has forbidden pink, it's a whole big mess of awkward to begin with, and i'm never going to see these people again, but it reflects on him so i'm trying to dress nice

i think i might try a red tie instead if the yellow is so offensive

[Callisto]

kuya I don't mean to alarm you

[Callisto]

but you're thinking a lot like a straight man

[Callisto]

I think you might be




not gay

[Rocl]

if i wasn't in a rush to go somewhere and these clothes were ironed i'd model RIGHT THE FUCK NOW, but i gotta jet

[Odon]

What you could do is wear a red tie and white pants, and then you will be an American flag. This will obviously only go well in that type of situation.

[Rocl]

accurate self-portrait

[Kuya]

but you're thinking a lot like a straight man

what you mean

[isladar]

Okay, good. Now, your feelings on sex, how would you describe them? I often hear that for women, sex is more of a relational thing. That is, it is something you share with someone meaningful to you, rather than something (in the case of some men) that you seek out for the pure pleasure of it (like you would a delicious sugary treat). Would you say this is true for you?

I think I touched on this in my last response, but yes, it is definitely a relational thing. My interest in sex is directly related to my interest in my partner. Sex is incredibly pleasurable, but that pleasure is rather meaningless to me outside of the context of my partner. Without an interaction that is engaging to me, sex is unappealing. I would not, and have never, sought out sex to simply experience the physical sexual response.

If you've ever had any discussions on your views on sex with other women, what were other women's reactions to this and/or did they share the same sentiment? How else have you heard other women (again, assuming you've discussed this with other women before) describe their need for sex and how they feel sex should be/is about?

From casual conversations on this subject, this is not a very shared sentiment among women I've known. They will see an attractive man on the street and wonder about / perhaps pursue sexual contact with him. Most girlfriends have told me that they would prefer sex in the above context (in a dedicated relationship), but feel comfortable seeking it out with someone on a purely physical level if that is what they want. Their reaction to my preferences is usually considering me to be disciplined (it is not a matter of discipline on my part) or more often, old-fashioned. I've been called prudish, lol.

[Kuya]

The second paragraph is surprising to me, yet seemingly consistent with my hypothesis which might mean that it's too broad. Now let me get more personal: what is your opinion on masturbation? Would you consider its purpose to be purely for health reasons? Personal gratification (much like eating ice cream)? Perhaps you view it negatively, as a selfish act?

[Odon]

accurate self-portrait

I'd do it.

[isladar]

The second paragraph is surprising to me, yet seemingly consistent with my hypothesis which might mean that it's too broad. Now let me get more personal: what is your opinion on masturbation? Would you consider its purpose to be purely for health reasons? Personal gratification (much like eating ice cream)? Perhaps you view it negatively, as a selfish act?

Masturbation is perfectly acceptable, both for relieving sexual tension and personal gratification. Again, however, not something that I've ever experienced as an OH GOD I GOTTA. I don't like the view of masturbation as a substitute for sex, I think it's its own category.

[Shiroikage]

This thread, man.

[Kuya]

Okay, last two questions then:

What is your opinion on lesbianism/bisexuality for women? Do you consider yourself capable of ever being sexually attracted to women (if you aren't already)? Are you comfortable with being able to recognize and comment on the beauty(and sensuality/sexyness) of other women? Are you comfortable around lesbian women or bisexual women (do you get uncomfortable with the idea of them being in the same bathroom with you and somehow checking you out)? What do you perceive as the opinion of other women on this? (you can speak in general or refer to specific conversations)

Second, how do you feel about the male physique (or what part of it do you find revolting)? What in men do you like or find sexy (assuming you make the distinction)? Would you say you're more visual (you like images of men the most), more contextual (directed towards actions) or perhaps you're more into dialogue (sexy speech, erotic literature)? Do you watch pornography? If so, what sort of pornographies do you prefer (straight porn, lesbian porn, gay porn) and what do you like about it? Does watching women in straight porn (assuming you watch it) make you uncomfortable (i've heard that some women can't help but identify with the women in straight porn, and thus they are made uncomfortable by what they perceive as the latent misogyny in the act, so they either prefer gay porn or watch no porn at all)? Finally, same as above, how do you think other women feel about this? Contrast it or compare it your own feelings/thoughts on this.

Thank you again for answering, and also if you would rather answer in pms, this is fine too (sorry for not mentioning it earlier)

[Rocl]

dont you answer in PMs now that it's gotten this far

[Ivve]

interesting

[Callisto]

if isla isn't willing to comment on the women she knows, I totally am

[Alleya]

if isla isn't willing to comment on the women she knows, I totally am

He knows them intimately.

[Callisto]

I wish lol, they're like blammo