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[Kuya]

And then i would say: who is more less inclined to express the particulars of their sexuality in public: isladar against accusations of being prudish, or skirkle with accusations of being unmasculine. The question would basically come down to this: what stings more, women being called prudish or slutty or men being called unmasculine or gay?

[Xajii]

And then i would say: who is more less inclined to express the particulars of their sexuality in public: isladar against accusations of being prudish, or skirkle with accusations of being unmasculine. The question would basically come down to this: what stings more, women being called prudish or slutty or men being called unmasculine or gay?

The latter, by far. Hell, some chicks pride themselves on being prudes.

[Xajii]

..Although I guess some guys pride themselves on being gay.

Y'know. Like, gay pride.

[Kuya]

This is all to justify the hypothesis that women vary more in their expressions of sexuality than men do.

[Conrad]

The worst thing a man can be amongst his peers is unmasculine, while women can be prudish or conservative with less consequence.

[isladar]

The latter, by far. Hell, some chicks pride themselves on being prudes.

How do you know? I will say this, most of my relationships with girlfriends have been categorized by me being put in the 'big sister' model (a forerunner of being Auntie), and I have gotten the impression multiple times that in their discussions they have retooled their vocabulary in an effort to maintain some idea of authority on my part. Shades of don't swear in front of mom, as it were. On the other hand, removing the ease of euphemism or vulgarity, they've also had to articulate more, so I suppose there's a possibility they were more honest.

I do not like the prude moniker. It makes me feel separated from the ease of interaction I've witnessed between girlfriends (two girls, best friends, who I've been friends with for years and years). I would have loved to be included in that club, as perhaps that would have offered me a place to talk about things that I might otherwise not.

[Tetronimo]

What would you say is your opinon on sex for example? Do you think it's something that you need to have weekly? Monthly? How long are you willing to go without it? How long do you think other women are willing to be without sex and how would you compare this to men? I have a few other questions but i'll start with this.

I'm trying to verify a hypothesis i recently came to about women and sexuality.

I’m probably committing what is akin to career suicide by saying this, but I have not had sex since…March of 2008. I just had to call someone up to verify that shit, that’s where I’m at right now.

So, obviously I’ve figured out it’s not anything I need on a regular basis, thought it certainly is something that’d be nice to have. I’ve been told that if I “lower my standards” I could easily get penetrated on the regular, but my standard is more than just fucking. If he’s got a little pudge or he just looks scraggly as fuck, it doesn’t matter. I don’t need a perfectly chiseled body (but who doesn’t want one, amirite?) I don’t necessarily need a committed relationship, but I wouldn’t be shtupping more than one person on the regular, and wouldn’t want to be one girl in a roster of vaginas. I’m willing to wait as long as it takes for me to find the kind of guy I can click with. I don’t think there’s any rule like “not on the first date or anything.” For me, it’ll happen when it happens.

I have a few friends who hear this and are like “Oh, yeah, cool.” But a few girls, straight and lesbian, have told me that I am either lying, or crazy, or mentally broken. One of my lesbian friends will ask “So have you gotten laid yet?” and when I reply in the negative, she’ll ask “Why not?” Another friend, straight, will ask the same question, and look at me with something that I do not want to believe is pity. But I’m honestly fine with how things are. Like I said, it’ll happen when it happens and it will be fucking amazing, and then I will be so filled with adrenaline that I will bite my partner’s head off, post coitus, like a praying mantis.

And then I’ll decapitate him.

As far as men go, I haven’t spoken to any dudes regarding my sexual hiatus, but none of them have asked. I know quite a few guys, so that means they don’t feel comfortable enough to discuss it candidly, or they don’t care. I haven’t bothered to figure out which.

I’ll answer the rest after Archer.

[isladar]

The worst thing a man can be amongst his peers is unmasculine, while women can be prudish or conservative with less consequence.

Again, I would put forth that women are immensely cruel in enforcing social mores.

[Titanss]

So far I have learned Tetro hasn't got the dick in 2 years

[Titanss]

I already knew the rest

[Odon]

I’m probably committing what is akin to career suicide by saying this, but I have not had sex since…March of 2008. I just had to call someone up to verify that shit, that’s where I’m at right now.

So, obviously I’ve figured out it’s not anything I need on a regular basis, thought it certainly is something that’d be nice to have. I’ve been told that if I “lower my standards” I could easily get penetrated on the regular, but my standard is more than just fucking. If he’s got a little pudge or he just looks scraggly as fuck, it doesn’t matter. I don’t need a perfectly chiseled body (but who doesn’t want one, amirite?) I don’t necessarily need a committed relationship, but I wouldn’t be shtupping more than one person on the regular, and wouldn’t want to be one girl in a roster of vaginas. I’m willing to wait as long as it takes for me to find the kind of guy I can click with. I don’t think there’s any rule like “not on the first date or anything.” For me, it’ll happen when it happens.

I have a few friends who hear this and are like “Oh, yeah, cool.” But a few girls, straight and lesbian, have told me that I am either lying, or crazy, or mentally broken. One of my lesbian friends will ask “So have you gotten laid yet?” and when I reply in the negative, she’ll ask “Why not?” Another friend, straight, will ask the same question, and look at me with something that I do not want to believe is pity. But I’m honestly fine with how things are. Like I said, it’ll happen when it happens and it will be fucking amazing, and then I will be so filled with adrenaline that I will bite my partner’s head off, post coitus, like a praying mantis.

And then I’ll decapitate him.

As far as men go, I haven’t spoken to any dudes regarding my sexual hiatus, but none of them have asked. I know quite a few guys, so that means they don’t feel comfortable enough to discuss it candidly, or they don’t care. I haven’t bothered to figure out which.

I’ll answer the rest after Archer.

Yo whats up I haven't had sex in like a year and a half, we should get drinks.

[Shiroikage]

I'm on a 23 and a half year dry spell, let's hit the bar.

[Cantih]

Again, I would put forth that women are immensely cruel in enforcing social mores.

I'd have to agree with this.

I had a group of friends I in highschool, they ran the anime club, and were also an awarded cosplay group. Women, every one.
Now the first couple anime conventions I went to, I roomed with a bunch of guys, but they stopped going. The next con, I was left high and dry, but the women decided to let me stay with them, and I did so for years until I couldn't afford to go to cons any more.

Outside of the social pressures of school, they were completely different. At the time I would have said they were more like guys, but these days, I just say they were being people.

[Titanss]

I'm on a 23 and a half year dry spell, let's hit the bar.

... no wonder you have depression

[Shiroikage]

I do not have depression, I am super awesome.

[Titanss]

why not buy a hooker (I am being serious)

[Shiroikage]

But if I ever go to an anime con, I want one of you to put me down.

[Titanss]

after you get that 1st fuck in maybe things will start looking up

[Shiroikage]

why not buy a hooker (I am being serious)

Because I don't give a shit.

[isladar]

But if I ever go to an anime con, I want one of you to put me down.

lol, this