gay and straight men are basically identical except for two things

[Krye]

I have turned a message like this down before on the basis that it was fucking Sunday and I had work in the morning. I mean why would you try and get it in on a school night

You probably turned her down cause you like dudes

[Charismatic]

Bitch about to get married, understandable.
It's the night before you go back to work after your weekend off... not quite so understandable.

[Shiroikage]

i now have a date with destiny every monday and i am pretty sure i would still go for it

[Ivve]

just curious, do you (the general you, so everyone) feel that people in committed relationships are not worth messing with, or do you just not care? do you feel any kind of personal responsibility in contributing to a cheater, or is that 100% on them?

[Mertron]

I don't know about 100%, but I would feel bad so if someone is in a relationship I wouldnt bother. Even if they made it obvious they didnt give a shit (and that has happened before, including within the last uh, two weeks).

If you will excuse me, I need to go turn in my penis.

[Xajii]

just curious, do you (the general you, so everyone) feel that people in committed relationships are not worth messing with, or do you just not care? do you feel any kind of personal responsibility in contributing to a cheater, or is that 100% on them?

Did it once, turned out poorly, never do it again. Esp. after having been cheated on. It's a no-no zone.

Edit: As for responsibility, it lies with both of them but from the other perspective, it's really all the person who cheated's fault because they were the one with shit on the line. A guy pushing for it or allowing it to happen at all is still a dick, though

[Mertron]

fuck i dont think best buy is open this late

[Shiroikage]

I don't know about 100%, but I would feel bad so if someone is in a relationship I wouldnt bother. Even if they made it obvious they didnt give a shit (and that has happened before, including within the last uh, two weeks).

If you will excuse me, I need to go turn in my penis.

this, exactly this

[Ivve]

mkay. just wanted to know where people stand on the concept. i do agree that both are to blame, but i also think only a special kind of asshole kind of goes to that territory on purpose. it's one thing to be deceived or unaware that someone's attached, but purposely butting in with complete disregard for that whole situation is kind of what the fuck to me. why would anyone want to be party to that kind of trouble? shit never turns out well, i doubt many lasting relationships are built on cheating if that's the nature of the pursuit (and it seems like when women do it, it often is), and there are plenty of people around to get your genitals rubbed up with, so. yeah. i don't see the attraction. the forbidden fruit fantasy is a really shitty reality.

[Lucienne]

just curious, do you (the general you, so everyone) feel that people in committed relationships are not worth messing with, or do you just not care? do you feel any kind of personal responsibility in contributing to a cheater, or is that 100% on them?

I wouldn't make a move on a person I know is in a relationship with the purpose of having sex. As you said, there is lot of dick to get elsewhere. However, if I ended up falling in love with a person that is in a relationship, and the feeling was mutual, I would try to steal them I think. I've never been in that situation, but I guess it would also depend on who their partner was, wether I knew them, if there were children involved and how strong my feelings were. I wouldn't pass on something real because the person is taken. I realise it's selfish.

I don't think the responsibility is 100% on the cheater, the seductress and the betrayed partner play a role as well. There are people that cheat for the sake of it, but usually having sex with someone else signifies a deeper problem in the relationship, which doesn't even have to be on a sexual level. Take an unemployed guy with a wife that supports him, but makes sure he knows what a worthless piece of shit he is every chance she gets, he might go buy drinks and have random sex with some little bimbo just to boost his ego. I don't think cheating is necessarily the worst thing someone can do in a relationship. It's not right, but lot of things aren't right.

[Krye]

Rofl Luci trying to justify why every guy she's ever been with has cheated on her, here's a clue babe it's cause you're a nasty skank, you're the bottom bitch, I'd cheat on you too, I'd probably fuck your mom and send you a tape of it after

[Lucienne]

Missed me?

[mootsfox]

compare me to a gay man again and I will fucking beat your ass, man

You're beating off to my ass?

Dude you a fag.

[Demosthenes]

Cheating is complicated. Where exactly does cheating line begin?
Fantasizing? Flirting? Having conversations you generally on have with your partner? Holding hands? Kisses? Sleeping with someone?
People have different ranges imho. A lot of people presume everyone follows the same rules they do when nothing could be further from the truth. Shit ought to be discussed prior to getting tied down. Some people are just plain poly-amorous. Which is not really wrong, just outside the societal norm.
I have never done anything with one person while with another. I will never as long as I am exclusive.
If fall for someone though, I'm not going to sit on my hands and do nothing. I make my intentions known. I'm never just in it for a fling personally. The only line I can't really cross is marriage. I'm an asshole for it. I won't sit in the 'woe is me/in another lifetime' boat though.
It is good to realize though, that if you chase after someone that is already tied down and get win said person over, chances are said person can be 'won' over by someone else.

[Krye]

It is good to realize though, that if you chase after someone that is already tied down and get win said person over, chances are said person can be 'won' over by someone else.

It always amuses me when people get into this kind of situation and don't expect the bitch to cheat on them. This bitch that I live with has cheated on everyone she's ever been with, she has to advertise nationwide cause her cockthirst is so insatiable, has people fly across the country to fuck her in hotels for weeks at a time.

[Demosthenes]

It always amuses me when people get into this kind of situation and don't expect the bitch to cheat on them. This bitch that I live with has cheated on everyone she's ever been with, she has to advertise nationwide cause her cockthirst is so insatiable, has people fly across the country to fuck her in hotels for weeks at a time.

Everyone but you.

[Krye]

She said she'd fuck me for cash if she didn't have a boyfriend

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i2.../FROSTWYRM.png

[Demosthenes]

She said she'd fuck me for cash if she didn't have a boyfriend

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i2.../FROSTWYRM.png

But she fucks everyone else for free while she has a boyfriend.

[Krye]

I'm pretty sure she's just intimidated by my skill in WoW, since she can't manage anything other than jumping around in Orgrimmar all day. Kind of like how you look up to me, but we can't be friends because you're determined to be my rival and eventually overcome my position of power.

[Demosthenes]

Whatever helps you sleep at night.