gay and straight men are basically identical except for two things

[Colenzo]

women approach dudes too lol

[Colenzo]

shit happens to me at least every time I go out

[Ivve]

Not to say that you're wrong ivve, just that a woman with a high sex drive does have a greater ability to pull than a man, quality notwithstanding.

then you're missing the point. i'm saying that if we're introducing the concept of lowering standards, that kind of obliterates that problem. if you're a dude of average attractiveness not taking home pussy, you're not setting your sights low enough. you can, you just don't want to fuck some people. and if we're going to be discriminating, the sexes are on a more even playing field.

[Charismatic]

women approach dudes too lol

shit happens to me at least every time I go out

[Ivve]

I CAN'T APPROACH HIM BECAUSE IF I DO OBVIOUSLY I AM DESPERATE FOR PENIS BECAUSE SOCIETY SAYS SO.

uh, yeah. i buy into that. sorry that you don't. it makes me uncomfortable, thus lowering my enjoyment of the evening. so no, that's not worth it to me. you can get all mayad about it i guess, but that's how i feel. i'm pretty sure i'm not alone in that.

[Charismatic]

lol, ok

[Ivve]

wait, it's now weird as a woman to prefer to be approached and feel awkward about hitting on men?

[Charismatic]

To prefer to be approached? No.
To feel awkward about hitting on men... yeah, I think that's weird.

[Charismatic]

Pretty sure everyone would prefer to be approached, that's a really nice self esteem booster... I love it in the rare occasions that it does happen.
But if I see something I like, I'm gonna want to go get it. Pussy or whatever.

I don't see why it'd be weird for someone with a vagina to feel the same way.

[Ivve]

idk, i guess that's the culture i've been raised in and so that's influenced how i feel about mating and dating.

[Ivve]

Pretty sure everyone would prefer to be approached, that's a really nice self esteem booster... I love it in the rare occasions that it does happen.
But if I see something, I'm gonna want to go get it. Pussy or whatever.

I don't see why it'd be weird for someone with a vagina to feel the same way.

well tbh, when it comes to sex, gender roles are really important to me. i have less than 0 desire to be the aggressor/pursuer/whatever. so if the purpose is only sex, then me having to pursue them really doesn't work for me on any level at all.

[Ivve]

just being straight up.

[Charismatic]

well tbh, when it comes to sex, gender roles are really important to me. i have less than 0 desire to be the aggressor/pursuer/whatever. so if the purpose is only sex, then me having to pursue them really doesn't work for me on any level at all.

Whatever floats your boat, I guess... still think it sounds silly as hell. But if it does nothing for you, it does nothing for you.

[Ivve]

which goes back to what i was originally trying to say. shit isn't necessarily the most amazing thing in the world. personal preferences, etc etc.

[Kuya]

if nobody approaches anybody, than nobody is gonna get any

[Kuya]

but if eveybody approaches everyone, we all win

[Ivve]

good, then approach me yo

[Kuya]

one thing i love about messing around with dudes, is not having to be the one to do all the work most of the time; it's refreshing and flattering to be the one who gets to judge whether your suiter wins or fails at your very whim

[Charismatic]

one thing i love about messing around with dudes, is not having to be the one to do all the work most of the time; it's refreshing and flattering to be the one who gets to judge whether your suiter wins or fails at your very whim

I bet that's the only reason you even have sex with men...

[Kuya]

You make it sound like i love lording myself over others, char.