Spitting Game

[Saga]

Yeah, the whole "nice guy" shit never works because every girl you go up to and compliment her on something has heard that same compliment fifty times that night. And even if you're the most interesting guy in the world, the first thing every girl worth picking up is thinking when you come up to her is "When is this guy going to leave?" Don't stand there and try talking to her for 45 minutes. Say your piece, gtfo back to your friends and act like you don't give a fuck. If you did it right, she's going to wonder why you're the only guy there not tripping over themselves to talk to her and want to get in with you and prove she's worth talking to you.

Totally shitty way to look at it but it's pretty true: the goal is to raise your value in her eyes while lowering her value in her eyes. When girls know they're hot, they know they're hot, but the goal isn't for them to question how hot they are, it's to question what about them aren't you interested in that every other guy is?

[Seanr]

the "game" of running multiple chicks making them each think they're the only one

I used to despise this, but somehow found myself doing it...

There are multiple approaches to females, with some you can act slightly or completely uninterested and they go crazy for that because a. They're fucking confused as to why you're not drooling over them like the rest of the asshats and they seek attention or b. They're finally happy that someone seems to just want to be "friends", get to know them a little better, and boom goes the dynamite.


Have more to add when I get back

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[Milkster]

On the same token how do guys like to be approached or pursued?

[Silviya]

On the same token how do guys like to be approached or pursued?

Directly, no bullshit. Ok, maybe a little bullshit, but still mostly open and straight forward.

[Seanr]

Yea, fuck the playing games honestly, dudes will be stoked that a chick is actually approaching them for once. I had chick that sort of did that way back when, we ended up being together for 2+ years.

Technically I initiated contact by saying "hi, im sean" and pretty much walked off, I wasn't introducing myself with the purpose of trying to get with her, but she said she was bewildered and intrigued by my actions and ended up pursuing me..

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[Kerberoz]

The spitting game is when someone pretends to swallow, but they're actually palming and hiding the load like a magician hides cards. The "game" part is not getting caught, obviously.

[Mertron]

i dont have a backbone, but i also dont give a fuck that i dont have a backbone

WHAT HAPPENS NOW

[Moss]

i dont have a backbone, but i also dont give a fuck that i dont have a backbone

WHAT HAPPENS NOW

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[Moss]

you clearly dont give a fuck in that picture

[Plow]

On the same token how do guys like to be approached or pursued?

tbh if you have trouble landing men you're either gross or hitting on straight guys

[archibaldcrane]

Like yourself, and women will like you.

If you hate that you have a shitty job, you're overweight, and you're going nowhere in life, women will hate those things about your miserable ass too.

If you have a shitty job, are overweight, and going nowhere in life, but think you're awesome and that shit doesn't bother you, you'll be just fine.

Tl;dr Bitches love confidence, and you can either do a bunch of "game" bullshit to cover your deep-seated insecurities from sucking all the time, or you can fix your life so you are actually awesome.

Or you can not give a fuck. But if you do give a fuck, you can't start not giving a fuck really. So there's that.

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[archibaldcrane]

Oh. And put yourself around lots of single women. Get a hobby you boring fuck, stop trying to pick up girls at bars the shit doesn't look good on you.

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[Moss]

Oh. And put yourself around lots of single women. Get a hobby you boring fuck, stop trying to pick up girls at bars the shit doesn't look good on you.

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Seriously this. It's so much easier to talk to and pick up women in a non-bar situation. It's also much easier for me at least to be a suave motherfucker in the sober real world than drunk at a bar.

[archibaldcrane]

And live in southern California, yeah that 22-year old Midwestern cutie might look nice now, but in 5 years she's going to be chubby at best, but most likely on the road to obese.

Noone can resist big macs and a sedentary lifestyle in those places.

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[Inactive]

Don't stand there and try talking to her for 45 minutes. Say your piece, gtfo back to your friends and act like you don't give a fuck. If you did it right, she's going to wonder why you're the only guy there not tripping over themselves to talk to her and want to get in with you and prove she's worth talking to you.

Pretty much this. No one has a problem talking to girls you're not interested in, treat girls you are interested in the same way. I usually ask a question or 2, pretend to care, then leave it at that. My whole approach is if the girls interested great, if not I'm not going to waste time trying to change her mind. The less I actually cared about getting pussy or w/e, the easier it became.

[miokomioko]

And live in southern California

If all you want is a warm hole to jam your wiener in, good advice. If you want something more than bleached hair and Juicy Couture sweatpants... go somewhere else.

[Plow]

Pretty much this. No one has a problem talking to girls you're not interested in, treat girls you are interested in the same way. I usually ask a question or 2, pretend to care, then leave it at that. My whole approach is if the girls interested great, if not I'm not going to waste time trying to change her mind.

I disagree with that part. If you're interested, don't "pretend" you're not and shit, that's just... I'm not even gonna go there.

The "challenge" is just getting in the door, if you can't get there straight up then the shit's just not right.

There's no "limit" to how long you should approach someone you're interested in and shit like that, that's just playing games. Yeah you use the confidence and ask questions bit to get started, but once you're talking both people should be mature enough to figure out if they're interested on their own, not through silly pseudo-scientific manipulation.

[Korietsu]

I just sit and act disinterested, but meh, seems to cover the bases.

[archibaldcrane]

If all you want is a warm hole to jam your wiener in, good advice. If you want something more than bleached hair and Juicy Couture sweatpants... go somewhere else.

Heh. Never dated a girl with either, and I've dated all up and down this motherfucker.

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[Inactive]

I disagree with that part. If you're interested, don't "pretend" you're not and shit, that's just... I'm not even gonna go there.

The "challenge" is just getting in the door, if you can't get there straight up then the shit's just not right.

There's no "limit" to how long you should approach someone you're interested in and shit like that, that's just playing games. Yeah you use the confidence and ask questions bit to get started, but once you're talking both people should be mature enough to figure out if they're interested on their own, not through silly pseudo-scientific manipulation.

I didn't mean pretend not to be interested, I mean approach attractive girls you want to fuck the same way you approach someone you aren't interested in. Guys don't freeze up or act awkward when talking to beat girls because they genuinely don't care, that relaxed attitude is how you should approach girls you're trying to sleep with. Because in reality, there are many more like em and it doesn't really matter.