Again, I don't see what part of "I'd have no problem if they asked" isn't being understood
Again, I don't see what part of "I'd have no problem if they asked" isn't being understood
Because not everyone is going to ask. "Hey can I look through your shit"
Sounds like you have trust issues of your own to work out.
Creamsoda thinks he's people
Like I said, if you have jack shit to hide then you have nothing to worry about. Snooping isnt something most folks do, what most folk (mainly bitches) do do is that they dont like to keep it 100 with a nigga and decide to creep in an attempt to have their cake and eat it too. Agree with Day on this in every way. I mean if folks read your logs and you've been cheating, how the fuck can you even justify and play the "Oh man, you dont trust me enough to not look through my chat logs" card, when the other person has been sucking and fucking on the DL?
In Rata's case, was he wrong? Fuck no he wasnt. He had a hunch and busted that ho. Dont feel bad and damn sure dont apologize.
In my current relationship, I'm frequently around a number of exes - lots of shared friends, wine club, etc.
My girlfriend complains about it sometimes, and I assure her that if I was going to fuck someone else, I would have the decency to break up with her first.
However, if her insecurity got the best of her and I caught her going through my phone, it would be a sign to me not that she needs to gtfo because she doesn't trust me, but a sign that I haven't earned her trust yet. It would be something we needed to work on together.
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I know CS is trying to troll me cause this nigga ain't got a computer for his imaginary gf to snoop through. Nigga gotta ride his busted ass bike to kinkos to post on BG everyday.
Lol holy crap that made me laugh.
I agree with Miz and Day on this one though. I don't think that snooping on your significant other is as black and white as some see it. I think it really depends on how bad the snooping is, how in depth it goes, and to what lengths someone takes to snoop on their significant other. It also depends on what your relationship is like. CS if you are willing to talk about it before hand why not be willing to talk about it after the fact?
Hard to draw the line because it really does depend on the situation as well as the individual you are dealing with.
I had an ex that would frequently check my computer, my phone, etc and it never bothered me, cause I had nothing to hide. In all, it made me feel kind of better knowing she was concerned and that I obviously meant enough that she was afraid to lose me. If you have something you are wanting to hide from your significant other, you really shouldn't be a in a relationship. Also, this whole idea of friends with exes, I personally don't think it can ever work. I have made sure to end every relationship in a way where the other side will never want to talk to me again, cause once you cross a bridge, blow that motherfucker up and never look back.
Also, I am surprised no answered "waterboarding" to the actual question of the title. But I still revert back to should have put her shit you bought her up on ebay and sent her the link after you changed the locks.
Too bad the OP didn't get a chance to key log her too lol
When you don't have very little material things, what you do have is sacred. I'm not surprised by cream soda's posts