How do you make a girl admit that

[EternityEnd]

I said that with the realization that he was accurate in that one instance. Like I said, he wasn't in a very strong relationship to begin with. I think my very first post summed it up pretty accurately, in that she was an immature cunt for cheating, but he was also in the wrong for snooping. Just because in that one instance it revealed her actions doesn't mean it's healthy for someone to snoop.

[Cleverness]

If she was upfront about the situation in the first place, left if it wasn't secure, etc, it wouldn't even need to be done. It's her fault. He is obviously not the smartest guy, but that doesn't mean she can cheat on him, act distant, not say anything, then expect privacy. If we were talking about guys who are just jealous or whatever that's 1 thing. But after 2 years, you tend to know how someone acts, and if they acted like she did prying like that wouldn't be out of the question. Not prying in these situations is how guys end up marrying women who cheat on them with their neighbor, pregnant with someone elses kid and tricked into raising it, etc. Fuck that.

Alot of people in relationships are adults and refuse to act like it, it's real simple. If you are unhappy, say something to work it out. If it persists, leave. Better to be single and available than in a relationship and miserable and cause shit like this to happen. If you refuse to talk, expect someone who cares about you to pry.

[Francisco]

Tell her you're into BDSM, get her to go along with it, take some "knockout" drugs right before the act, and when you come to, cry rape to the police.

[Militant]

If she was upfront about the situation in the first place, left if it wasn't secure, etc, it wouldn't even need to be done. It's her fault. He is obviously not the smartest guy, but that doesn't mean she can cheat on him, act distant, not say anything, then expect privacy. If we were talking about guys who are just jealous or whatever that's 1 thing. But after 2 years, you tend to know how someone acts, and if they acted like she did prying like that wouldn't be out of the question. Not prying in these situations is how guys end up marrying women who cheat on them with their neighbor, pregnant with someone elses kid and tricked into raising it, etc. Fuck that.

Alot of people in relationships are adults and refuse to act like it, it's real simple. If you are unhappy, say something to work it out. If it persists, leave. Better to be single and available than in a relationship and miserable and cause shit like this to happen. If you refuse to talk, expect someone who cares about you to pry.

^^^ This all the way. If things are going good/normal in the relationship, is it acceptable to check the phone? No. But if you notice your S.O. acting way out of character, and they arose your suspicion often enough, and give you a strong reason to suspect infidelity, then I think it's within your rights to find out by any means necessary.

[Silviya]

Should have bought a cheap ring engagement ring and proposed to her. She would have had to either come clean or go along w/ it. If she comes clean, then you've accomplished what you wanted to do; get her to confess w/o telling her you know. If she doesn't come clean then eventually you make her look like a real scum bag (which she is) in front of all her family and friends when you eventually break off the engagement/relationship and she has to explain why.

[Mizango]

Sorry, but if I found out the person I'm seeing has been going through all my communications the entire time, I would break up with them. I wouldn't waste my time on some crazy, jealous person with trust issues.

How about you avoid all that and keep former dick from inside of your pussy? If you have a problem with that then like has been said hundreds of times, you can pick your shit up off of his front lawn tomorrow morning.

I dont snoop but dumping someone so you can cheat in anonymity is a stupid fucking concept.

[Mizango]

Bitches man, fucking pipe dreams. Then again we could always skip the snooping phase and go straight to "stage Juice".

[Ratatapa]

God I feel lonely beeing in a couple for 2 years then going straight single is hard

[Maaglin]

Once you realize you're better off it gets easier.

Besides, finding new bitches is fun as fuck. Especailly when you find 2-3 to date at the same time.

Memories.

[Valisk]

That would be an awesome analysis if he wasn't dead-on balls accurate in his suspicion. He guessed who, what, when, where, dude fucking nailed it.

There, I see what you did.

God I feel lonely beeing in a couple for 2 years then going straight single is hard

Stop calling it a couple! Frenchy. And please don't start signs of breaking after 2 days. Get a new bitch if you're lonely. Don't let the chick who cheated back in the door. Once the trust is gone, it's gone.

[Day]

Sure is a lot of people on a trust pedestal up in this bitch.

If you got nothing to hide what difference does it make if they go through your things. You know most rational human beings don't just go snooping through shit without reason. Whether that's gut instinct, someone tips them off, partner is acting weird etc... what fucking difference does it make. Trust comes and goes it's not a fucking 100% thing all the time, for either party. Human nature is disgusting and greedy, and if you aren't aware of that you will get burned at some point.

If everyone was a fucking saint, I'd agree, snooping would be suspect, but when you have a pretty good feeling your partner is getting their rocks off somewhere else, I think you should do what it takes to confirm what the fuck is going on.

Acting like you are some kind of higher being because you found someone YOU feel wouldn't ever cheat you is fucking retarded. You sound like a cosmo article.

[Byrthnoth]

Between checking someone's e-mail and sleeping around, I think it's pretty obvious which one has more long-term repercussions. Better to know and move on than to be used as a backup plan and end up raising someone else's kid.

Just remember, it can always be worse. I can't find the source that it looks like that article plagiarized from, but I had it yesterday. It was almost the same words without the random comments/flavor text. Ah, there we go.

By the way, best part of the article by far is this.

[Cream Soda]

God I feel lonely beeing in a couple for 2 years then going straight single is hard

Go to the animal shelter and get a declawed cat

[Ratatapa]

Ok I know you're not the intelligent type CS but can change the tune once in a time, starting to get old

[Mizango]

Sure is a lot of people on a trust pedestal up in this bitch.

If you got nothing to hide what difference does it make if they go through your things. You know most rational human beings don't just go snooping through shit without reason. Whether that's gut instinct, someone tips them off, partner is acting weird etc... what fucking difference does it make. Trust comes and goes it's not a fucking 100% thing all the time, for either party. Human nature is disgusting and greedy, and if you aren't aware of that you will get burned at some point.

If everyone was a fucking saint, I'd agree, snooping would be suspect, but when you have a pretty good feeling your partner is getting their rocks off somewhere else, I think you should do what it takes to confirm what the fuck is going on.

Acting like you are some kind of higher being because you found someone YOU feel wouldn't ever cheat you is fucking retarded. You sound like a cosmo article.

Preach.

[Kuya]

Ok I know you're not the intelligent type CS but can change the tune once in a time, starting to get old

He is black though

[Dimmauk]

God I feel lonely beeing in a couple for 2 years then going straight single is hard

Get a slump buster bitch, get really dirty nasty with her and get all this shit out of your system

[Mizango]

He is black though

haha

[Cream Soda]

Ok I know you're not the intelligent type CS but can change the tune once in a time, starting to get old

You could always go to plenty of fish on your awesome Ipad

Edit: make sure to tell next one you can't come beforehand and see if they accept that or if you think they'd cheat or not w/ someone who can longdick better than you.

[Acturus]

God I feel lonely beeing in a couple for 2 years then going straight single is hard

You should try going gay single for a while. I think BG has a few guys who can help you. It'll won't be any less hard, it'll just be a different hard.