They already warned us about this particular issue a few week ago. Not that it makes it forgiveable, but we knew it already at least.
I remember reading in one letter that they were going to revamp the networks code, and fix all the "why can't they do this" issue. Keeping your leves and party, kicking people out of your ls when they arent next to you, and stuff like this are probably going to be fixed at the same time in 1.19 or 1.20.
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