BG Advice: On brothers and sex and stuff.

[Ksandra]

As for threesome? With brothers? No, I am not interested in that, it's all kinds of awkward for everyone involved.

homophobe.

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just j/k <3 I had to say it

[Aksannyi]

Now now Sandy, I didn't say I wouldn't have a two guy threesome, I just don't want those two guys to be related!

And no pics. I haz none, sorry. The only people I actively take pictures of are my kids.

[solanis]

what do the kids think about this? do the guys come over to your place, or do you leave the kids with a babysitter/parents/their dad overnight?

[archibaldcrane]

Who do you think holds the videocamera?

[pogejr]

If they're close brothers, the older one probably already knows.
If they're normal, it shouldn't matter as long as you bring it up in honesty.
If they're like my brother and I, and I'm sure plenty of others out there, you wouldn't necessarily be a slut, but the idea of mating with someone my brother was IN would gross me out.

Edit: For the love of God please don't get the kids involved. You seem like a wonderful mother but, as someone who grew up with a single mother and a brother, random men in the house give a child the idea that his mom is a slut.

[Scizor]

Go for it, an ex of mine is now with my brother and expecting his child. If it was just a one night stand I really wouldn't worry about it.

[Ddz]

I only read the OP. If you want to pursue it, you are going to have to come clean to the one you're interested in. I am sort of in the same situation - I met my current boyfriend through my best friend. 10 years ago, they fooled around (no sex) but nothing ever came of it. They both came forward to me when we started dating. I am cool with it, and glad that it wasn't kept a secret.

[Mazmaz]

From the title I thought they had merged all the shitty advice threads into one thread.

[tyven]

My favorite moment in a woman's life is when she realizes there are consequences for who she fucks. Now this may all workout and you two live happily ever after but i am hoping he wants nothing to do with you since his bro has been in you.

my friends and i share a lot of chicks, sharing is caring. but i could never get serious with one of them. imagine standing up in front of my friends and family and seeing a friend that has banged my wife. plus if its well known everyone in the audience is like damn, you know she been slayed up by his homies/brother, right? aint that some shit.

[Zilong]

wasn't there a Nostradamus prophecy regarding this, or was that just an internet made urban legend?

[zoobernut]

'U' is a letter in the English alphabet. You is a word containing three letters that refers to a person. Learn the difference please. The conjunction of 'you' and 'are' is you're.

Also if grown people controlled their emotions and thought before acting the would wouldn't have nearly so much war and violence. I would say the majority of 'adults' I have met in my life do not fit into your category of 'grown people'.

I agree with the advice above talk to the little brother first then talk to the big brother and be completely honest about the whole situation.

[Elvis]

Being way serious, i take my hat off to a bitch who has f*cking morales.

http://weaselzippers.us/wp-content/u...vo-morales.jpg ?

Morales disagrees.

[zoobernut]

For some reason I find it ironic that you are discussing taking responsibility and how to be a proper adult while typing like that. I guess substituting letters for whole words and saying anything over 100% just doesn't seem very mature to me.

Edit: I am not deriding you for it nor am I trying to be condescending, I just find that how you carry yourself and present yourself to others has a great effect on how they perceive you as a responsible adult.

[solanis]

lovex is a dlisted fag, he doesn't know any other way to type. consider it a mental disorder called "stanning" and tell him to get dragged, etc. he stans for the hbic though, so he's okay in my book.

[AoE]

First off, just because two people are related doesn't mean they have a great relationship/great interaction with each other.

I've been in this situation. Girl was interested in me that could've been an easy lay but I wasn't really attracted to her and it was before I started drinking (lol). Few months later she's talking to my brother and ends up sleeping with him. I didn't think it was cool at all. I never even knew they were talking and when I found out, I made sure she knew I did not want her anywhere near me. Some of the guys in here are probably gonna look at my post like I'm stupid but the relationship with my brothers is different than the relationship I have with my friends and I'm not really keen on the idea of getting my brother's sloppy seconds.

It depends on the personality of the guy you slept with and the relationship those brothers have with each other.

[Aksannyi]

what do the kids think about this? do the guys come over to your place, or do you leave the kids with a babysitter/parents/their dad overnight?

My kids don't live with me. They live with their dad's family. Long story, don't want to go into it, but they're not really an issue when it comes to me going out. Of course if I get into anything serious they absolutely are an issue and any guy with a problem with them can gtfo, but at this stage of any sort of dating it makes no sense for me to get all worked up about the kids since they don't even live with me and it won't affect them at all.

As sad as that is to say.

[archibaldcrane]

Usually just skim/skip Lovex's posts, but holy shit does it sound like a retard.

[Jaybar]

Why did no one mention your sig? Or did they?

Also - use gut instinct. Works every time.

[Cream Soda]

If he says no, I got dick over in saint pete

[Komm Suesser Tod]

I'm pretty sure you'd be the one most bothered by it if the one night with the little brother was just that. I can't speak for every guy, but I know, as long as everything was above board, if one of my friends started seeing a girl I had had a fling with, I wouldn't be bothered by it, as long as I heard about it straight from him/them, not seeing them out on the town and hearing "oh we were going to tell you" kind of shit.

Emotionally detached sex happens between friends of the opposite sex sometimes. If you can both be adults about it, then the one night stand shouldn't come between your possible new relationship.