I duo'ed 2 box NIN & WHM, I brought a BLM friend to kill the BLU at the start. As long as you magic kill the blu the first 2 times, DNC/NIN can solo alex if Nin can.
THF dagger question:
Triplus/Twilight or
Twilight/Triplus
Saw a few thfs running around with the former which confused me.
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