My main problem with this movie is that none of the characters had enough common sense to just sit the kid down and explain what happened. Yeah, he fucked up, and yeah, they had other shit to do, but not even fucking Karou could properly explain what happened. It was as if Anno is trying to keep the secrets so close to his chest that he won't let any of his characters know them. I got the impression that no one wanted to tell him because they knew it would crush him, but that is not how it came across. They just went about their lives needlessly toiling away at their schemes while leaving him, and the audience, adrift. The original series slowly gave away the plot with each passing episode. You could feel that Kaji found something important, and that Misato was inching closer to the truth. You could connect with them because they felt real. I can safely say I did not connect with any of the characters in this movie apart from Shinji. Maybe that was the intention, but it didn't make for an enjoyable movie.