Do you think I ever expected to get a Dring? No. It fell into my lap because I went to Kings, every single time I could, and eventually the stars had to align. I killed it enough for it to finally drop and all my effort was plainly quanitified by having the leading DKP.
To me it's like I buy into this version of the American dream in FFXI. It's not perfect, and you will get some scars along the way. But anything is possible. And that's what makes it worthwhile. To others, the dream is dead as soon as they have to compete against someone else.