The Ultimate Water Bottle Thread

[kuronosan]

Already said that, she said she only wants me and no one else and wants to father my children, etc. but it's only harmless fun.

[Ksandra]

Only spoke to her about it once. Now she's asking me what's wrong, hence this thread.

wait I'm confused, isn't this the same guy that wanted to give her a massage or w/e? I thought you mentioned it to her then, but didn't like put your foot down or anything.

[Boyiee]

I genuinely clicked this thread thinking it was about water bottles and was going to Kor it up.

[Tweek]

was in a similar situation once in a serious long distance relationship (which is fucking hard enough as is), found out they had kissed once too. pretty much lost all the trust we had and made her cut all ties to the guy, she even dropped her very close friend which was how she had met the dude. She cut off all contact to both her friend and the dude and we slowly built trust back up it took a long time but she was willing to do anything she could to restore trust in the relationship. Then when the d-bag had reached out to her months later she would tell me what he said and she either told him to fuck off or ignored him but she would tell me.


you need to trust her if you're going to marry her, she should also be willing to cut this dude off if that's what it takes and nah i don't think you're asking too much or that it's wrong of you to ask her to do that, fuck him wtf is he and why does he need to be in her life if you're the only one she wants to be with for the rest of your lives?


edit: also the other obvious option is to just cut it off with her. but seriously there is no point in having a relationship if there is no trust it doesn't sound like you're going to be able to easily trust her by telling her to quit crossing the line with this dude. keep in mind too that emotional cheating is just as bad as physical for many women

[Callisto]

Already said that, she said she only wants me and no one else and wants to father my children, etc. but it's only harmless fun.

'harmless' generally means, well, it's not harming anyone lol...obviously this is not the case. If you tell her it hurts your feelings, and she continues to say there's no harm done, that's about all there is to it, she does not have regard for your feelings and things are probably not going to work out too well.

[kuronosan]

wait I'm confused, isn't this the same guy that wanted to give her a massage or w/e? I thought you mentioned it to her then, but didn't like put your foot down or anything.

Fuck no, if it was I wouldn't have made this thread I would have got pics and dumped her.

[AoE]

These threads need a Biz icon also

http://popdust4.presscdn.com/wp-cont.../bizMarkie.jpg

OH BABY, YOU!
GOT WHAT I NEEEEEEEED!

[Cleverness]

Doesn't matter, honestly I don't think people understand the word 'trust'. If she gets hit on by other guys and squashes it by saying she's married or with her fiance, but doesn't with this guy, that says enough; she doesn't want to close that door with him. You've brought it up once and she isn't doing the reasonable thing, just straight up tell her you're considering cancelling the marriage proposal and want to go to couples counseling because of her actions. She needs to see that you aren't just jealous about it, you are serious about this connection she has with another man she "likes talking to once in a blue moon", that's not something that casual friends say in this type of situation.

You've invested 4 years and you're prepared to invest the rest of your life and half your shit with this woman. It's not unreasonable.

[Ksandra]

[edit]

Fuck no, if it was I wouldn't have made this thread I would have got pics and dumped her.

DAMN YOU AND YOU POSTING WHILE I WAS TYPING. (had a long rant about the massage dude)

Then which thread were you referring to?

And still that means she's done this with other guys, no? What happened with the massage dude?

[Azull]

Flirt with another girl in front of her... see how she reacts.

[Cleverness]

Also OP I just want to remind you, from the other thread, you said you'd post pics if you 2 ever broke up.

I expect 4 years of good pics if it comes to that.

[Darkslitter]

Email the other guy's baby mama the facebook convos. Then start flirting with another girl via facebook calling it harmless fun, preferably your girl's mom.

Edit: take pics and or vids, like when she comes at you pissed off have a video camera in hand and throw it on youtube

[Brill Weave]

Kuro she's going to fuck you over eventually if she hasn't already done so. This is NOT normal healthy behavior for someone who is about to get married. If she is doing this to you now, it's only going to get worse after you're married.

You're ready to spend the rest of your life with this woman. She's ready to go on Facebook and disrespect you with this guy after you've already asked her to stop. She needs to grow up and you need to move on. I'm sorry buddy but do not go through with this wedding. Save yourself the future pain and degradation.

[Headspace]

Holla we want prenup.

[Mazmaz]

Wow fuck all this advice.

OP just become a cuckold. Trust me you'll make your life much easier and be much happier.

[FallingHigher]

Haven't read whole thread but maybe tell the guy's gf and show her the chat logs?
Sit back.
???
Profit?

[Dimmauk]

If yall do end up getting married, I can help plan it. I have this amazing tron themed ceremony I think you might be interested in.

[kuronosan]

[edit]

DAMN YOU AND YOU POSTING WHILE I WAS TYPING. (had a long rant about the massage dude)

Then which thread were you referring to?

And still that means she's done this with other guys, no? What happened with the massage dude?

She told him to take a hike.

And yes, that is the thread.

Also just got an I'm worried message, so I told her straight.

Ending it is a nuke option. I can't just quit a four year relationship with someone I love without trying.

[Headspace]

She told him to take a hike.

And yes, that is the thread.

Also just got an I'm worried message, so I told her straight.

Ending it is a nuke option. I can't just quit a four year relationship with someone I love without trying.

A hike in her vagina. Lol jk

[Ksandra]

She told him to take a hike.

And yes, that is the thread.

ok so it was easy for her to say take a hike with the other guy but not this guy? icky situation all around, but I think you need to have a long talk with her about ground rules before proceeding with wedding shit. Has this happened with any other guys?