The Ultimate Water Bottle Thread

[Tyche]

It's the same guy as from the other thread, correct? She has a fixation on this guy. If you don't want to end it, counseling, and she still has to end every form of contact with him.

[Ksandra]

It's the same guy as from the other thread, correct? She has a fixation on this guy. If you don't want to end it, counseling, and she still has to end every form of contact with him.

I guess different guy. but this means she's done it to multiple :/

[Darkslitter]

incorrect tyche

[kuronosan]

ok so it was easy for her to say take a hike with the other guy but not this guy? icky situation all around, but I think you need to have a long talk with her about ground rules before proceeding with wedding shit. Has this happened with any other guys?

No, those is recent, after I started working late to save for our wedding.

[Cleverness]

It's not the same guy as the other thread.

Honestly I agree with Brill, this is a really stupid argument to be having with a fiancee after 4 years together. Back when you made the thread and you were just 1 year in the relationship, that type of problem is natural for young couples, cause trust isn't well established. After being together for so long, you shouldn't have to argue with your woman about sending mixed signals to a guy, especially when you've made it known she has no issues making it known she is not interested with every other guy. Who is to say she won't do this later on after you're married and you hit a rough patch, like many do? You may not want to end the relationship after 4 years, but that's the kind of thing that keeps couples together just for the sake of being together, just to divorce later on when you find her getting dick from someone else.

You don't need to be a control freak, but she shouldn't be putting herself in that position to begin with. Move on dude.

[Dimmauk]

Wow fuck all this advice.

OP just become a cuckold. Trust me you'll make your life much easier and be much happier.

Is there a name for the female version of cuckold?

[Callisto]

Cockhold?

[Gryffes]

Make her watch this:

[Brill Weave]

Let us know how the throw down ended Kuro. You also need to make your points without raging around the house like a fucking idiot. Remember, this isn't about her feelings. This is about what her actions are causing you to feel. Do not sugarcoat or minimize your thoughts and feelings on this subject. You need to make it abundantly clear that this is an extremely serious situation to you. It is not a trust issue. I've been married four years now. My wife would NEVER do this. The reason? Because she actually respects me and our relationship. I've told her in no uncertain terms that if she ever cheats it's over. No second chances. No discussions. The end. She has told me the same thing. Our relationship works because there's mutual respect for how the other person feels. Your relationship doesn't have mutual respect.

[Abandon]

Not worth the bullshit. I didn't read this entire thread, because frankly, i don't give 2 shits about what the others have to say. Sorry, niggas. She can't respect your wishes and cut the bullshit with other dude, she doesn't deserve to share the same space as you. Cut her loose; there are a ton of other women walking around, and one is bound to want you and be faithful and respect your wishes.

[Abandon]

Stuff

Storytime soon?

[Brill Weave]

My honest question is whether or not Kuro overachieved with this girl. If he did that could explain why he's let shit like this go on without slamming her on it. I would rather have a B or C girl that actually loves and respects me than an A that plays fucking games.

[Brill Weave]

Storytime soon?

Actually no. The wife and I are just in the same mindset when it comes to infidelity. Though one girl did cheat on me years ago so I fucked her sister two days later and her best friend a week after that.

[Abandon]

not about this, lol, just in general

[Cleverness]

Preferably that doesn't have anything to do with hillbilly orgies

[kuronosan]

So far she said she will do anything to save our relationship and that she doesn't want to feel like I will get mad when guys flirt because she's pretty, and that if the guy says hi to her it would be rude to just ignore him. I told her that wasn't acceptable.

[Howie Roary]

does he always say hi with his pants down?

jk

[guartz]

dude, you let your wife use facebook?

I keep mine in the basement.

[Churchill]

I prefer Nalgene, I have a few from REI like this. Widemouth ones are better, can be used for mixing stuff in very easily or holding stuff in to waterproof if necessary in survival situations. Also, they won't freeze in cold weather which is especially useful for climbing.

[Churchill]

Also, sounds like you got a classic needy bitch with no self respect. That's shit you can't change.

You said you were working late to save for wedding, she sees less of you which means you aren't there which means her mind wanders. Shit's never going to change. This is the type of girl 95% of people in the military get married to. Take a look at military divorce rates in the US real quick and tell me if this is a good idea y/n